
Master the road to receiving with a practical framework for asking clearly and effectively. Identify who to ask, when to ask, and how to handle no or yes outcomes.
Know what you want by defining a specific, measurable outcome with a deadline; for example, lose 3 kilograms by March 31 to improve how you ask for what you want.
Identify who to ask rather than assuming others know your wants, and enlist multiple people to support clear, measurable requests with timeframes and decision-making power.
Time your ask; use precise words; consider explicit and implicit signals; decide your desired response, how you’ll know you’re heard, alternatives if needed, and next steps.
Discover the three-part ask: start with how you feel, request a specific action, and explain how it will make you feel, reinforced by open body language.
Set aside time and space, craft a specific 'I want' sentence with a measurable outcome, refine your wants, and then ask silently, aloud, or in writing.
Pause before asking and confirm your need can be met; avoid venting as a request, and choose actions that strengthen relationships when immediate solutions aren’t possible.
Increase the effectiveness of your requests by ensuring they are heard with eye contact and body language; prepare for response and apply three actions: be thankful, be proud, practice asking.
Learn to ask for what you want clearly and confidently using a three-part script that works with anyone, plan your ask, anticipate responses, and celebrate yeses.
What do you want?
A pay rise? A better job? A great pair of shoes?!
What have you been asking for – and not getting – that might be within your reach if you found a better way to ask?
Join me in this laser-focused, fun, short course as I share my unique method for ASKING that is HONEST, AUTHENTIC and effortlessly effective. Since I started using this method ten years ago, I have doubled my salary at work, raised two happy healthy teenagers, become the CEO of my own successful business and met the man of my dreams. It's simple, easy-to-learn and it just works!
Here’s what you will know by the end of this class:
how to get incredible clarity on what you want, so that when you ask for it you can do so with confidence.
the exact words that bring MAGIC results every time; with a simple 3 part formula. Amazingly, this easy script works with loved ones, work colleagues and even complete strangers.
how to check that you were heard
what not to do when you ask
how to be sure that you are clear on the response you are seeking; this is a vital part of any negotiation, so it’s a must have for those BIG, life-changing asks.
the skills you need to plan what you will do when you get a no answer and
how to celebrate your yesses.
The class includes
A worksheet that is your blueprint for success; download it and use over and over again.
Scripting cheat sheet with Karen's unique, magic 3-part formula
Real-world examples including:
How to ask for a raise at work
How to ask for more help around the house from your partner.
Take this class so you can get exactly what you want with confidence, grace and ease.