How love succeeds: Stop being bored – become more alive!
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How love succeeds: Stop being bored – become more alive!

Strengthen your love and connection with your partner!
4.4 (6 ratings)
Course Ratings are calculated from individual students’ ratings and a variety of other signals, like age of rating and reliability, to ensure that they reflect course quality fairly and accurately.
1,048 students enrolled
Created by Bertold Ulsamer
Last updated 4/2020
English
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Price: $34.99
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This course includes
  • 5 hours on-demand video
  • 1 article
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
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What you'll learn
  • You understand what you can do to make your relationship work
  • You learn how to end boredom and become alive again.
  • You discover how your sexuality becomes more fulfilled.
  • You learn to deal with your jealousy
  • You learn how to deal with love affairs in the best possible way
  • This is how you learn to refresh and rediscover your love for your partner
Requirements
  • Openness
  • Curiosity
  • Engagement
Description

Especially in longer relationships boredom and frustration can occur in everyday life as well as in sexuality. But jealousy and love affairs can also become a major topic of conflict. These are main topics of the course!

You learn how to take responsibility for your part of the problems and how to bring more vitality and fulfillment into your life together. Love for a man or woman is something very precious and sensitive. Become the best possible gardener of your love!

This course is one of three courses on the theme of how love succeeds in a love relationship. The other two are “Solve your conflicts” and “Heal your wounds of the past”. All three belong together and complement each other.

These three courses are the fruit of 40 years of my work as a therapist and seminar leader. And it is the fruit of being 21 years a husband! Lessons and insights are rooted in NLP, hypnotherapy, family constellation, trauma therapy and communication psychology.

Who this course is for:
  • People who want to nourish their love for their partner
  • People who don't really feel happy in their relationship
  • People who want to learn and understand what they need to live a successful relationship
Course content
Expand all 66 lectures 05:00:06
+ Starting point: Take inventory of your own relationship
8 lectures 35:25
Starting point: Take inventory of your own relationship
05:05
More inventory
05:34
Practice: Meeting your love as a plant
07:54
Short review
01:18
+ Discover your influence on the relationship!
7 lectures 30:17
Practice: Your goal, which you want to achieve through this course
06:15
Trust yourself more than me!
03:14
Practice: Your choice of a partner and the consequences
06:51
How you can influence your relationship
04:00
Pressure creates counterpressure
04:52
Finding new ways to get what you want
04:50
Bonus: Adresses to contribute to the course
00:15
+ Common ground and differences between you and your partner
6 lectures 30:04
Opposites and similarities attract each
03:49
The male and the female pole
07:19
The attraction of what you are not
05:24
The other one mirrors you your split parts
03:19
Do you want more freedom or more commitment?
07:25
Homework: Reflect about the differences and similarities in your partnership!
02:48
+ Stop getting being boring!
7 lectures 30:47
Introduction
02:40
It is normal that boredom rises
01:52
Practice: Face your boredom!
05:32
The price you have to pay not to be bored
04:04
Practice: Make your life (overall) more exciting!
09:27
Homework: Be more honest!
03:05
+ Sexuality: Explore your needs and wishes!
6 lectures 33:44
Practice: Discover more of your sexuality in a metaphoric way
01:34
Introduction
08:53
What do you use sex for?
05:19
Practice: Allow your dreams to fly!
05:10
Practice: Bring the resources of your past into the future!
11:15
Homework: Become more aware of when and how you hide
01:33
+ Find a more alive sexuality with your partner!
8 lectures 33:25
Introduction: Boredom slips in slowly
02:04
The praise of the familiar
02:06
Practice: Meet the part that is afraid of the unknown depths!
08:01
Discover more of intimacy!
03:36
Practice: Discover more of intimacy!
05:10
The lack of appetite for sex
03:12
Containment and “slow sex”
07:54
Homework for both partners
01:22
+ Understand and reduce jealousy!
7 lectures 33:23
Introduction: Jealousy has many roots
01:37
Practice: Meet your jealousy in a symbolic form!
06:10
First aid: How you free yourself from tormenting thoughts
04:36
The feelings of the child as the basis of jealousy
06:41
Practice: Love this wounded child!
05:12
The feelings of the grown up as the basis of jealousy
06:24
Homework
02:43
+ Deal with love affairs the best way you can
8 lectures 34:22
Introduction: So many have affairs
02:47
The Man-Woman-Lover triangle
05:58
Possible consequences of an affair
04:32
Practice: If you are the cheater
04:44
Practice: If you are the cheated one
05:30
Practice: If you are the lover
03:58
There is no escape – an example
06:02
Homework
00:51
+ Nourish your love
7 lectures 29:27
Introduction
00:37
Practice: The “miracle question”
06:03
The basic attitude: Respect the other as he is
08:57
The 3 stages of love
03:34
Questions and talks which nourish the love
02:23
Practice: Be thankful and humble!
05:42
Final recommendations
02:11
+ Closure
2 lectures 09:12
Special recommendations
02:09
Gift video from "Solve the conflicts with your partner" -from "How love succeeds
07:03