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Personal Development Parenting & Relationships Love

How love succeeds: Free yourself from the past!

Leave the weakening influence of childhood, family and of your personal life behind you!
Rating: 4.8 out of 54.8 (7 ratings)
722 students
Created by Bertold Ulsamer
Last updated 1/2020
English
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What you'll learn

  • You discover the obstacles that come from your childhood and family and you dissolve them
  • You transform transgenerational connections
  • You come in peace with former love relationships
  • If you had an abortion, you learn to come in peace with it.
  • You find your way to a more mature form of love

Requirements

  • Engagement
  • Openess
  • Curiosity

Description

Much of your suffering is caused by old wounds. If you don't want to admit them (and we all do), then they come up in the current relationship.

This course helps you to deal with the forgotten pain.

Many wounds go back to childhood. Some also go back to previous relationships or to an abortion. This past negatively influences your present relationship.

Only when you understand the roots of your present feelings you find appropriate responses in your actual relationship. This course is teaching you what you need!

Of course there will continue to be situations in love where you feel frustrated, angry or hurt. But when you have learned to distinguish, your feelings no longer overwhelm you, so you can react appropriately.

Meet your partner as a strong and loving adult - not as a helpless child!

Romantic love is so attractive. When we start a love relationship we are full of hope, expectations and dreams. And we all know that these happy easy times are not lasting forever. Why? In the course you get answers!

Relationship is the chance to learn more about yourself and to grow together.

This course complements my two other courses “How love succeeds”. One is: “Solve your conflicts with your partner!”, the other “Nourish your love!”

These 3 courses are the fruit of 40 years of my work as a therapist and seminar leader. And it is the fruit of being 21 years a husband! Exercises and insights are rooted in NLP, communication psychology, hypnotherapy family constellations and trauma therapy.

Who this course is for:

  • People who want to nourish their love for their partner
  • People who don't really feel happy in their relationship
  • People who want to learn and understand what they need to live a successful relationship

Course content

8 sections • 39 lectures • 3h 22m total length

  • Preview02:03

  • Preview04:28
  • The longing and the old wounds
    07:22
  • Practice: Deal with your longing and your pain!
    08:42
  • The confusion of the other with a parent
    03:52
  • Practice: Coming out of the confusion
    07:21
  • The love of a child and the love of a grown up
    03:06

  • Emotional reactions and its roots in the past
    02:35
  • Practice: Take an actual conflict!
    04:53
  • Practice: Discover the roots in the past!
    08:32
  • Practice: Consequences of the discovery
    02:23
  • Traumatic events in the past which influence the relationship
    05:28
  • Practice: After an early separation - come closer to your mother!
    03:28
  • Homework: Exercise for separating presence and past
    03:28

  • Your relationship may be similar to that of your parents
    03:47
  • Practice: Discover similarities!
    10:56
  • Preview04:49
  • Practice: Find the good distance to the parent of the opposite sex!
    10:13
  • Homework: Integrate well!
    01:08

  • You carry on the emotions of your ancestors
    03:37
  • Practice: The loyalty towards the ancestors of the same sex
    09:42
  • The battlefield of men and women
    04:47
  • Practice: Honoring the fate of the ancestors
    08:29
  • Practice: Leave your parents to their own tensions!
    04:56
  • Homework: Imagining the line of ancestors
    01:02

  • Preview03:01
  • Practice: Meet old loves!
    05:06
  • How to come in peace with an old love
    06:37
  • Practice: Come in peace with the past!
    08:49
  • The importance of former partners of the parents
    02:31
  • Practice: Lett go of former partners of parents!
    06:34
  • Homework: Reviewing the steps
    01:22

  • Inbtroduction
    00:56
  • Look to abortion without moral judgements
    06:32
  • Practice: Face the abortion and come in peace!
    07:22
  • The possible effects on the partnership
    03:55
  • Practice: Face the partnership and come in peace together!
    10:46
  • Homework: Find a ritual!
    00:49

  • Gift video from "How love succeeds: Nourish your love!"
    07:25

Instructor

Bertold Ulsamer
Therapeut, Trainer und Coach
Bertold Ulsamer
  • 4.5 Instructor Rating
  • 2,054 Reviews
  • 33,854 Students
  • 38 Courses

~* German Version below *~

PhD in law, certified clinical psychologist, NLP-trainer, trauma therapist (Peter Levine), originally from Germany. My strength is: Putting complicated psychological issues in a nutshell. Understandable for everyone - because the essence is simple! Moreover, I want my participants not only to get ahead theoretically, but also practically. Thus I set great value on them making new experiences and gaining new personal insights.

After graduating in law I also studied psychology. I quickly noticed that I way prefer working with humans to working with paragraphs. So I started to practice as a psychologist - initially with individuals, then mainly with groups. Together with a colleague I founded an institute for NLP in management trainin~* German Version below *~g. We developed and held many seminars about leadership, self-management and communication for customers like BMW, Siemens and Lufthansa.

In the 90’s I discovered the great influence of your own family of origin through the method of “family constellations”. Using this instrument I returned to working as a therapist and held seminars and trainings all over the world (e.g. in Australia, India, South Africa, Russia and the US).

Today I integrate everything I have learned working as a coach and therapist, for the last 9 years, oftentimes in China. I am the author of more than 20 books in the field of professional communication, self-management, family constellations and personal growth that have been translated into 10 languages.

If you are interested in the work I am doing then you may want to get information about my new courses and books. Inscribe you for my newsletter! And you will get reductions of some courses. You can do that on my website.


Dr. jur., Dipl.-Psychologe, NLP-Trainer, Traumatherapeut (Peter Levine). Meine Stärke ist: komplizierte psychologische Sachverhalte verständlich auf den Punkt bringen. Denn das Wesentliche ist im Grunde einfach! Und dann ist mir vor allem wichtig, dass Teilnehmerinnen und Teilnehmer eigene Erfahrungen machen und neue Einsichten gewinnen statt nur in der Theorie schlauer zu werden!

Nach dem Jurastudium habe ich noch Psychologie studiert. Schnell habe ich gemerkt, dass mir Menschen lieber sind als Paragraphen. Habe dann mit einer kleinen Praxis angefangen, aber vor allem immer mit Gruppen gearbeitet. Ein Kollege und ich gründeten dann ein Institut für Management-Training, wo ich viele Seminare zu Führung, Kommunikation und Selbst-management durchführte für Kunden wie BMW, Lufthansa und Siemens. Mitte der 90er Jahre entdeckte ich die große Auswirkung der eigenen Familie im Hintergrund über die Methode Familienaufstellungen. Damit ging ich noch einmal in die therapeutische Richtung und führte Seminare und Fortbildungen in der ganzen Welt durchgeführt (z. B. in Australien, Indien, Südafrika, USA, Russland) Heute integriere ich all das, was ich bisher gelernt habe, und arbeite als Seminarleiter, Therapeut und Coach, seit zehn Jahren häufig in China. Ich bin Autor von 24 Büchern zu den Themen Kommunikation, Selbstmanagement und Aufstellungsarbeit, von denen es Übersetzungen in zehn Sprachen gibt. 



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