How love succeeds: Free yourself from the past!
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How love succeeds: Free yourself from the past!

Leave the weakening influence of childhood, family and of your personal life behind you!
4.8 (6 ratings)
Course Ratings are calculated from individual students’ ratings and a variety of other signals, like age of rating and reliability, to ensure that they reflect course quality fairly and accurately.
719 students enrolled
Created by Bertold Ulsamer
Last updated 1/2020
English [Auto]
Price: $34.99
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This course includes
  • 3.5 hours on-demand video
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
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What you'll learn
  • You discover the obstacles that come from your childhood and family and you dissolve them
  • You transform transgenerational connections
  • You come in peace with former love relationships
  • If you had an abortion, you learn to come in peace with it.
  • You find your way to a more mature form of love
  • Engagement
  • Openess
  • Curiosity

Much of your suffering is caused by old wounds. If you don't want to admit them (and we all do), then they come up in the current relationship.

This course helps you to deal with the forgotten pain.

Many wounds go back to childhood. Some also go back to previous relationships or to an abortion. This past negatively influences your present relationship.

Only when you understand the roots of your present feelings you find appropriate responses in your actual relationship. This course is teaching you what you need!

Of course there will continue to be situations in love where you feel frustrated, angry or hurt. But when you have learned to distinguish, your feelings no longer overwhelm you, so you can react appropriately.

Meet your partner as a strong and loving adult - not as a helpless child!

Romantic love is so attractive. When we start a love relationship we are full of hope, expectations and dreams. And we all know that these happy easy times are not lasting forever. Why? In the course you get answers!

Relationship is the chance to learn more about yourself and to grow together.

This course complements my two other courses “How love succeeds”. One is: “Solve your conflicts with your partner!”, the other “Nourish your love!

These 3 courses are the fruit of 40 years of my work as a therapist and seminar leader. And it is the fruit of being 21 years a husband! Exercises and insights are rooted in NLP, communication psychology, hypnotherapy family constellations and trauma therapy.

Who this course is for:
  • People who want to nourish their love for their partner
  • People who don't really feel happy in their relationship
  • People who want to learn and understand what they need to live a successful relationship
Course content
Expand all 39 lectures 03:22:52
+ Understand your longing
6 lectures 34:51
The longing and the old wounds
Practice: Deal with your longing and your pain!
The confusion of the other with a parent
Practice: Coming out of the confusion
The love of a child and the love of a grown up
+ The actual conflicts and your confusion
7 lectures 30:47
Emotional reactions and its roots in the past
Practice: Take an actual conflict!
Practice: Discover the roots in the past!
Practice: Consequences of the discovery
Traumatic events in the past which influence the relationship
Practice: After an early separation - come closer to your mother!
Homework: Exercise for separating presence and past
+ How your parents may influence your own relationship
5 lectures 30:53
Your relationship may be similar to that of your parents
Practice: Discover similarities!
Practice: Find the good distance to the parent of the opposite sex!
Homework: Integrate well!
+ Transgenerational connections
6 lectures 32:33
You carry on the emotions of your ancestors
Practice: The loyalty towards the ancestors of the same sex
The battlefield of men and women
Practice: Honoring the fate of the ancestors
Practice: Leave your parents to their own tensions!
Homework: Imagining the line of ancestors
+ Your personal past: Previous relationships
7 lectures 34:00
Practice: Meet old loves!
How to come in peace with an old love
Practice: Come in peace with the past!
The importance of former partners of the parents
Practice: Lett go of former partners of parents!
Homework: Reviewing the steps
+ After an abortion
6 lectures 30:20
Look to abortion without moral judgements
Practice: Face the abortion and come in peace!
The possible effects on the partnership
Practice: Face the partnership and come in peace together!
Homework: Find a ritual!
+ Ending
1 lecture 07:25
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