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Personal Development Parenting & Relationships Relationship Building

How to build strong, lasting relationships and avoid turmoil

How to love and overcome relationship turmoil - practical guide to detect and solve stagnation, strife and frustration
Rating: 4.3 out of 54.3 (36 ratings)
1,850 students
Created by Flavio Ballerini, Ph.D.
Last updated 2/2016
English
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30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

What you'll learn

  • Understand how you sabotage your own happiness and how to stop it
  • Develop patience and compassion towards others
  • Help others grow without becoming enablers
  • Eliminate relationship turmoil from your life

Requirements

  • There are no pre-requisites to enroll
  • An open mind and a sincere desire to learn are crucial
  • The book Authentic Happiness by Martin E. Seligman may be helpful to some

Description

How to overcome relationship turmoil and get your life back

Welcome to the Relationship course where you will learn all you need to know to develop great relationships, romantic ones, with people, with yourself and even with things.

Do you know a person who cannot get along with someone else but at the same time can’t let them go?

We think of couples in these cases, but it happens to anyone: parent/child, siblings, co-workers, neighbors, friends, anyone who inhabits the Earth.

We call this “relationship turmoil”, and relationship turmoil has been associated with anything from decreased productivity and financial distress to poor health and early death. Just watch to movie War of the Roses to know what we mean.

For over 20 years we have helped people in relationship turmoil. We offer a unique way of solving this problem. We start with the idea that there are no true “relationship problems”, there are personal problems that affect relationships. Not all personal problems make a relationship difficult or nearly impossible. Usually the culprit is one personal difficulty, the effects of which on the relationship the participants remain unaware, leading to a lifetime of suffering.

In this course I present a series of in-depth discussions informed by over 31000 therapeutic sessions with over 7000 clients. As you listen to these discussions you will ask yourself “how could this apply to me?”

The course will take you into a deep introspection of your own life, so that you can identify the aspects of your person that make your relationships difficult. You will then learn how to change yourself.

I begun developing this methodology in the late 90’s, and by 1998 published a paper on this topic and later presented this material in several conferences to other therapists. The use of these techniques has generated much happiness to many people; it will do the same for you.

Although we tend to think of sex and romance when we think of 'relationships', the contents of this course go far beyond. We get into the very nature of human interaction with others and even with money and objects.  

This course is presented in a unique way: just you and I, looking at one another. Experience as a therapist suggests that eye contact and lack of distractions generates maximum benefit to you.

There are no requirements to enroll, other than an open mind, a loving heart and a sincere desire to be a better person. Mastering the concepts presented however, may require patience. Of course I will be available to help in case you need… just send a message!

Fell free to look through the course description and preview some classes.

Signing up is easy; udemy offers lifetime access to the course, free updates and new materials as they become available.

The fee is refundable, so you have nothing to loose.

Just click on the green button on your top right and let’s begin; Congratulations!

Who this course is for:

  • This course is for anyone in any kind of relationship
  • Couples will benefit from this course
  • Those struggling financially need this course
  • If you know you need to forgive, this course is for you
  • If relationships seem to be a source of struggle for you, this course will help

Course content

9 sections • 59 lectures • 4h 57m total length

  • Preview02:15
  • Personal and relationship problems
    02:05
  • Hybrid therapy for interpersonal relationship tumoil
    06:17
  • Awareness of turmoil is the key to therapeutic resolution
    04:13
  • Preview05:51
  • Preview04:39
  • Purpose of relationships - feeling good is not enough
    03:52
  • Purpose of relationships - from objects to people
    01:34
  • Avoiding relationships can lead to growth stagnation
    03:35
  • What does it mean to be an enabler?
    10:03
  • The true cost of bad relationships
    07:10

  • Forgiving people who do bad things
    05:47
  • What does it mean to forgive, anyway?
    04:17
  • Preview09:50

  • The perspective of the course of miracles
    03:30
  • This mysterious primary sensation of guilt
    06:13
  • What happens to unconscious guilt
    06:18
  • Preview03:03
  • Special versus Holy relationships
    04:35
  • The purpose of any relationship is to become Holy
    01:36
  • Practicing forgiveness
    02:56

  • Two pathways to accepting that a personal problem exists
    08:40
  • Keen observation of yourself is the key to a better life
    04:31
  • Regressive and progressive analysis
    01:11
  • Preview06:19
  • Progressive analysis and end-result imagery
    03:14

  • Do relationships ever come a natural end?
    01:04
  • The idea of utility
    03:50
  • Pleasure and responsibilities in relationships
    08:57
  • Preview05:24
  • Abusive relationships
    03:20

  • Persuasion, manipulation and kaballistic restriction
    01:37
  • Preview01:38
  • How manipulation denigrates you
    06:42
  • The importance of this issue
    02:22
  • True acceptance and tolerance
    11:38

  • Important terms and concepts to keep in mind
    03:12
  • What does it mean to be married to someone?
    03:08
  • Could we unconsciously still be married to our parents?
    06:36
  • How to avoid temptation in marriage
    01:26
  • The story of Odysseus
    03:59
  • Creating the public impression that "something is happening" may be dangerous
    01:59
  • Preview03:34
  • Soul mates and the origin of sex
    03:25
  • Preview06:04
  • Finding your other half
    03:37
  • The Love Dare approach
    03:10
  • Modern life, feminism and gender roles
    08:12
  • Male and female energy - ying and yang
    08:54

  • Other types of relationships: with your body
    09:39
  • Other types of relationships: with money and finance
    05:51
  • Other types of relationships: with religion and god
    06:03
  • Preview07:55
  • For parents: a perspective on children
    09:17
  • Employee and employers
    10:33
  • Relationship with objects?
    04:32
  • Relationship with objects? An example
    06:19
  • Preview07:15

  • Preview02:25

Instructor

Flavio Ballerini, Ph.D.
Author, Speaker, Master Hypnotherapist, Coach & Professor
Flavio Ballerini, Ph.D.
  • 4.5 Instructor Rating
  • 1,236 Reviews
  • 12,736 Students
  • 20 Courses

Flavio Ballerini, Ph.D.

Dr. Flavio Ballerini is the founder of the Hypnotherapy and Counseling Center in Miami, Florida. Dr. Ballerini studied engineering and philosophy at Florida International University. His Ph.D. in biomedical engineering delved into the etiology of degenerative diseases and the relationship between medical paradigms and health care provision. He started practicing hypnotherapy in 1996, established the Miami chapter of IACT in 1998 and was awarded the IACT Humanitarian award in 2000. Flavio practices hypnotherapy full time, teaches basic through advanced hypnotherapy, metaphysics and philosophy classes on a daily basis as well as online courses & webinars, is a frequent guest on local radio and TV programs, and directly trained over three thousand hypnotherapists. 

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