7 steps to deepen or heal the connection with your parents
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7 steps to deepen or heal the connection with your parents

The potent way to reach inner strength and relaxation
4.8 (29 ratings)
Course Ratings are calculated from individual students’ ratings and a variety of other signals, like age of rating and reliability, to ensure that they reflect course quality fairly and accurately.
496 students enrolled
Created by Bertold Ulsamer
Last updated 2/2017
English [Auto]
Price: $49.99
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This course includes
  • 4.5 hours on-demand video
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
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What you'll learn
  • You will establish a relaxed relationship with your parents.
  • You will find peace with your past.
  • You will cast a new light on your parents and see them with different eyes.
  • You will withdraw from tensions between your parents.
  • You will be able to meet your parents with more sympathy and kindness.
  • You will find inner autonomy and still be able to keep in touch.
  • You will find inner peace.
  • The longing to feel deeply connected to your parents.
  • The readiness to get to know yourself more deeply.
  • The courage to face your past.
  • Your parents don‘t need to contribute. A reconciliation is possible even if your mother or father have died.

You want to improve the relationship with your parents? Maybe you notice a certain distance or you broke off the contact completely. Maybe you are angry and hurt and expect that your parents take the first step towards asking you forgiveness.

This course is an intensive personal journey which connects you with yourself and with your parents more deeply. For this you do not need the cooperation of your parents, you can do it all by yourself.

You will gain: inner peace, self-confidence, power and joy of life. Meeting your parents will become more relaxed and peaceful.

This journey is worth doing it. If you are aware of it or not - the connection with father and mother has a great impact on your partnership and the relationship with your children. This special connection shapes your life till your death and influences the satisfaction with your life in many ways.

This course provides you with the insights of more than 20 years of working on this topic: The first part contains 7 steps which will help you to find peace with your parents. The second part helps you to deal with barriers which might occur. They often have the roots in your larger system of your family of origin.

You will get the essence of a 5-day seminar. This course is practical and I will lead you through all the necessary steps.

Who this course is for:
  • This course is for everyone who wants to improve or heal their relationship with their parents.
Course content
Expand all 56 lectures 04:28:24
+ Finding the hidden love
5 lectures 15:33
Introduction - Reasons for tensions between parents and children
Statement 1: All parents love their children
Statement 2: All children love their parents
Two different ways to feel more love for your parents
Being a good parent for your own child
+ Start your journey - The 7 steps to healing
21 lectures 01:27:26
Introduction: How to inwardly get closer to your parents
Step 1: It’s not a shame to feel hurt
Step 1: Do you have to forgive your parents what they did to you?
Practice Step 1: I stand by my wounds
Practice Step 1: A sincere letter to father or mother
Step 2: Similarity connects – difference separates
Practice Step 2: I name the similarities to father and mother
Step 3: A child looks with needy eyes only
Practice Step 3: I look with the eyes of a grown-up at my father and mother
Step 4: Parents make mistakes and cannot meet their child’s special needs
Step 4: Parents themselves are needy sometimes
Step 4: Children feel guilty when they do not get enough love
Practice Step 4: I realise that the missing love has nothing to do with me as a
Step 5: A good distance to mother and father helps to see them clearly
Practice Step 5: I express my respect for mother and father
Step 6: Children are expensive for parents and take these expenses for granted
Practice Step 6: I am thankful for what I received
Step 7: Is life a burden or a gift?
Practice Step 7: I thank my mother for my life
Practice Step 7: I thank my father for my life
Conclusion: The 7 steps are not a ladder but a spiral
+ Barriers within the family system
15 lectures 01:38:33
Getting to know barriers that might impede the 7 steps
Children as surrogates
Practice: I withdraw from tensions between father and mother
Practice: For a daughter who stood too close at the side of the father
Practice: For a son who stood too close at the side of the mother
The meaning of early death in a family
The meaning of outsiders in a family
Practice: I dissolve harmful connections with ancestors
How does the male power reach the man? How does the female power reach the woman
Practice for a man: I find my connection with the male power
Practice for a woman: I find my connection with the female power
What do you know about your ancestors?
Practice: I get in touch with my ancestors
Conclusion: The importance of our roots
+ Special Questions
4 lectures 18:33
Adoption and artificial insemination
What if parents hurt their child in an extreme way?
When parents grow old
+ Last but not least
6 lectures 31:57
Practice: What if my parents had had all the support they needed?
Practice: What I always wanted to hear from my parents
Practice: I make my way with my parents as support in the back
Outlook: Do not push yourself – trust in your growth

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