The Guide to Extraordinary Relationships
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The Guide to Extraordinary Relationships

Learning how to deepen and nurture that for ever love with Hailey Patry
4.1 (10 ratings)
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3,419 students enrolled
Last updated 11/2018
English
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This course includes
  • 1.5 hours on-demand video
  • 5 articles
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Certificate of Completion
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What you'll learn
  • Language to help you describe what you want in your relationship
  • A process to assist you achieve more of the love you want in your relationship
Requirements
  • You want to explore healthy loving relationship with your partner
  • You know you deserve love, happiness and respect in you relationship
Description

The Guide to Extraordinary Relationships  with Hailey Patry

Learning how to deepen and nurture that for ever love

Having that Special Loving Relationship has been created to help you complete your relationship, step into the love your desire, experience more love and happiness and manifest your love future… starting right now! This course is for you to start loving yourself and your partner again, and feel empowered, despite the many challenges you have faced. You get to reframe your love life  and find the blessings in the mess.

As a survivor of rape, cancer, abuse and serious depression, I have lived this several times in several parts of my life.

Ultimately, you will be more excited about your current and future love life and more satisfied with your partner and your  life.

Hailey lives west of Toronto ON Canada with her husband and three boys.

Who this course is for:
  • You want to have more ease and quality in your relationship
  • You want to have more love in your relationship
  • Anyone wanting a higher quality of love with their partner
Course content
Expand 19 lectures 01:59:36
+ Introduction to The Guide to Extraordinary Relationships with Hailey Patry
19 lectures 01:59:35
Section Two P.S.
01:28
Section III P.S.
00:57
SectionThree
10:26
Section IV
08:19
Hailey Apology
01:35
Section IV
08:48
Section Vi
11:02
Section VII
14:36
Bonus Section 1
07:34
Bonus Resource
07:12

Five Simple Steps You Can Take Today To Make Your Relationship Extraordinary
(Even If That Currently Seems Impossible)

Step 1…

Discover how to stop loving each other the “wrong” way and quickly fill your hearts with love again.

Determine your love language and that of your partner, then commit to loving each other in this way on a daily basis for the next 21 days to start. You will see the effects that your efforts are making, then continue to commit for 90 days, then 6 months and keep going. I have included the Love Languages Questionnaire for you.

Dr. Gary Chapman, creator of The 5 Love Languages®, is best known for the thousands of marriages that have been saved or enhanced, by using his tool for determining how you and your partner want and need to be loved. His work, which I teach my clients, talks about our emotional love tanks, and how we are our best selves in relationships, if our love tanks are full. On the flip side, when we are running on empty, we do not have the emotional energy to be loving partners. He also identifies the 5 primary love styles, or languages that people use to show love and receive love. We all have dominant styles or preferences, and if our partners don’t know what we prefer, we may be missing out on available love. When our partners learn how we both want and need to be loved, and then choose to love us in those ways specifically, wounds heal very quickly, people fall in love again, intimacy becomes more exciting again, and truly, marriages can be saved.

When relationships hit a dry spell, scary times, loveless times or even risk separation, the first emergency step is to take the love languages quiz and find out your love language and that of your partner. Once I determine how you both rank for Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts and Physical Touch… then I can easily build a plan to repair and enhance your relationship based on what each of you requires to be happy and feel loved.

I would love to hear from you after you have completed the questionnaire and determined your top 2 love languages for both you and your partner. I can teach you how to use that data to create the relationship of your dreams and support you in finding new and exciting ways to love one another. There are a few good love games and challenges that will help the process work even better. Drop me a line at Hailey@TheLiftedLid.com when you have your results, or better yet, just hit reply to this email. For urgent support you can always text me at 416-797-5856.

Here is the link to take your love questionnaire from The 5 Love Languages®:

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/couples/

But what if your partner is not even willing to do the questionnaire or talk at this point? Many of my private clients were in the same situation, but one conversation is all it took for me to help them get past their differences and at least be willing to take this key, first step.

Can’t wait to show you what I have in store for you tomorrow. Get ready to…

Gain instant reconnection by mastering the simple art of Heart-to-Heart conversations.

I promise you from the results in my own marriage and thousands of other marriages and relationships…. These methods work, if you and your partner do the work, consistently.


Hailey


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Welcome to day 3, where I unveil step 3 to make your relationship extraordinary!

Five Simple Steps You Can Take Today To Make Your Relationship Extraordinary

(Even If That Currently Seems Impossible)

Step 3…

Learn how easy it can be, to finally have everything you want in your relationship - well, almost everything.

Learn how to ask for your needs to be met, and willingly meet the needs of your partner. Also learn how to lovingly negotiate new terms and expectations for your relationship so everyone feels supported, honoured and cared for.

The issue of needs and requests is going to be the final step in your amazing heart-to-heart convo. However, just listing them is not enough. We need to figure out how to negotiate, compromise and complete the process. Let’s break down some amazing rules if you want to WIN the game of love:

  1. You and your partner take turns making requests of each other. 

  2. The person asking, states their request calmly and lovingly, without any guilt trips, digs, insults or rehashing of the past.

  3. The other person gets to respond with:

    • Yes, I am willing to do that starting right away. 
    • Or Yes, I am willing to do that, and I can start on ______ (future date). 
    • Or No, I am not able to do that specifically, but what I am willing and able to do is _________________________ (propose a compromise), which I will start doing immediately or on ______ (future date). 
    • YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO SAY FLAT OUT NO, and make your partner feel embarrassed for asking, or like you do not care about meeting their needs at all.

  4. In this game everyone wins. Both of you get to make all of your requests, and you will not always get everything that you ask for, but you will most definitely get MORE than what you were getting before.

  5. Write down your agreed upon terms and stick to them, because your relationship and your partner are worth it.

Here’s an example, in a marriage where intimacy has been lacking and sex has been happening once a week at best:

Wife says to her husband: “Hunny, I miss you. I would really love it if we had sex everyday, are you willing to do that?”

Husband says: “With the kids in our bed and our hectic schedule, I can’t commit to that, but I can commit to us being together at least 3 times a week. This week is so busy, so I promise to make time for us starting next week.”

It really can be this simple to start getting your needs met, and becoming closer and more fulfilled in your relationship. However, if you and your partner are having a difficult time negotiating this on your own, by all means, drop me a line! I mediate this process for clients in 90 minutes and support both partners in getting their needs met, and creating win/win situations. Just reply directly to this email. I am here for you!

Can’t wait to show you what I have in store for you tomorrow. Get ready to…

Discover the number one tool to alleviate stress and tension with your partner.

I promise you from the results in my own marriage and thousands of other marriages and relationships…. These methods work, if you and your partner do the work, consistently.

Remember, you are worth it!


Sending lots of love your way,

Hailey Patry 

The True Happiness Coach and Relationship Mentor

Bringing more love to the world, one couple at a time!

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