
Explore seven life-skills courses designed to help you design your ideal life, from independence from external forces to understanding how your brain works for you, defining meaning and discovering purpose.
Discover your unique meaning and life purpose, decide what success and happiness mean for you, and use personal wisdom to shape your path.
Explore the examined life by dissecting your roots—culture, heritage, gender, and history—and the wind of influencers, to decide what to keep or alter, and become your own rule maker.
Embrace uncertainty to recognize brain limitations, cultivate healthy doubt, and live as your true self, using wisdom over certainty to pursue meaning and happiness.
Explore how life is finite and time is not enough for everything, and ask what makes life meaningful beyond procreation while guiding you to make intentional choices.
Explore a personal journey to find life's meaning, from a pivotal trauma in high school to probing the observer vs. participant dilemma, guided by Viktor Frankl's insights.
Witness a high school class's brutal wartime execution, and let that trauma spark a quest to understand why we exist and how to pursue meaning.
A basketball game metaphor contrasts being a participant with being an observer, asking what you want, and urging a broadened view for a universal meaning that supports wellness and actualization.
Dr. Viktor Frankl contends that meaning emerges through actions, experiences, and attitudes toward unavoidable suffering, discovered in the world through our interactions.
Explore the meaning of life with a neutral guide that teaches you what to think about without deciding for you, serving atheists and people of faith across nine lectures.
Explore how religion shapes the meaning of life by following religious tenets and faith, with concepts of a higher power, the afterlife, and faith shaping daily living.
Explore the meaning of life as a whole—from birth to grave—and examine how end-of-life judgment, forgiveness, and the religious criteria shape the afterlife.
Reflect on how your unique existence shapes meaning, purpose, and faith, and imagine what your maker would say about your life and its alignment with an afterlife.
Define your meaning in life by testing and living your chosen values, whether religious or secular, knowing you judge yourself and shape the meaning of life through your choices.
Identify your values and how they shape meaning, purpose, and happiness. Prioritize values like honesty, hard work, integrity, caring for others, family, and God to guide your life.
Operationalize your values today by taking small actions and planning short-term and long-term goals, indulgences, and a bucket list to create meaning.
Explore defining moments shaped by your values, including slippery slope moments that define you over time, deal with it moment, and go for it moments driven by risk and opportunity.
Compare best life with ideal life and define meaning as a life custom made by you for you. Learn that your ideal life, not competitive accomplishments, defines meaning.
Discover that the meaning of life is to contribute value to others and greater causes, guided by your values and choices that define your life purpose.
Clarify your life purpose so it is clear, exciting, and important to you, then live that purpose to actualize the meaning you have discovered.
Revisit your roots and the wind to decide which heritage and upbringing to keep, alter, or ignore. Be independent of others' opinions to live with your purpose.
Explore the developmental tasks across childhood, adolescence, adulthood, and old age, and learn how presence and meaningful human connection shape life purpose and happiness.
Navigate belonging's intersection with values and life purpose, and how group expectations influence your choices. Recognize the pressure to belong and decide what you want, avoiding seduction by the group.
Your actual life purpose is to live your ideal life by contributing value to others and larger causes, and you can redefine success as your wisdom grows.
Explore how success and happiness hinge on human net worth, defined as contribution plus contentment, and learn to cultivate meaning, meaningful impact, and personal fulfillment.
Explore how fairness arises from our choices and interactions with others, not circumstance, recognizing we are not in charge of life, yet we can make fairness a priority.
Treat life as a degree of probability you can influence, recognizing life is unfair, and increase the odds of good outcomes through a healthy lifestyle and responsible actions.
Measure success in life by how well you live your values and contribute, making meaning and purpose your guiding metrics. Happiness follows as a byproduct of living your values.
The lecture links meaning, purpose, success, and happiness to contributing to others and larger causes, embracing presence and connection, and teaching others to foster meaningful life.
Explore the extras section on meaning, purpose, success, and happiness, including influences like Montana, Sartre and Maslow, and the idea of human perfection and breaking the glass ceiling.
Find meaning, purpose, and happiness through Montaigne’s idea of belonging to oneself, independence from external pressures, being in charge of your life, and how you respond to suffering.
Explore Abraham Maslow's self-actualization and the hierarchy of needs, from biological needs to safety, love and belonging, esteem, and self-actualization, while noting criticisms and focusing on personal values.
Challenge the idea of perfect humans; pursue personal meaningful goals by caring for yourself and others, living with purpose, independence, and embracing mistakes as learnings.
Explore Jean-Paul Sartre's existentialism and the idea that existence precedes essence. Embrace freedom to choose your meaning and live your ideal life, measuring success by your values.
Balance eating, drinking and being merry with the reality you could die tomorrow, and decide your values to live a meaningful life of contribution and happiness.
Discover how contributing to others defines meaning, shapes your purpose and success, and drives happiness across the rest of your life through evolving, personal decisions.
Discover how meaning, purpose, and happiness connect as you contribute to life and indulge in being you, cherishing meaningful moments and balancing fulfillment with wellbeing.
Explore meaning, purpose, success, and happiness, plus bonus material on mastering the speed of thought, cognitive biases, and high-performing teams through leadership skills and team dynamics.
The secret to living your ideal life isn't a secret.
WHAT STUDENTS ARE SAYING (AI): Learners appreciate the course for its deep exploration of the concept of purpose in life, with many highlighting how it challenged them to introspect on their values and contributions to others. They found the course to provide a framework to evaluate personal beliefs, examine past experiences, and create objectives that give their lives meaning. The teachings, referencing philosophers like Plato and Nietzsche, were particularly valued for encouraging learners to perceive life with new, constructive perspectives beyond their limitations. Learners recounted how the course instilled a sense of purpose, leading to a more fulfilling life experience.
This course: LIFE SKILLS: FIND MEANING, PURPOSE, SUCCESS & HAPPINESS
After this course:
You will finally be able to live your ideal life and be able to continually improve it.
What is the right way for you to live? Should the right way change as you grow older and learn? Do you stick with the tried and true? Who knows what's best for you? This course says that only you know the right way. And this course will help you be confident in your choices.
There are four usual ways of living:
1. Making it up as you go along and at some point, often too late, realizing you've missed out.
2. Living as well as you can day by day, working hard, keeping your nose to the grindstone.
3. Deciding early your life purpose and sticking to it.
4. Deciding your life purpose and continually refining it.
Most people live versions of 1 and 2. Life isn't easy and just getting through the day demands just about all you have. As American writer Henry David Thoreau once said, "The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation." These hard-working yet struggling people, the majority of people in the world, can still enjoy portions of an ideal life.
Luckier are those who pursue #3. Mother Teresa comes to mind (and just about every rockstar). With the passion of youth that lasts for a lifetime, these people throw themselves into a purpose-driven life.
Rarer are those than find purpose and continue to improve how they live it. These people can reach the height of success in one area, then dedicate themselves somewhere else with equal or greater effect. Many women do this almost without thinking about it. A single mom makes it through college and begins a career, then starts her own business before giving it all up to become a doting grandmother.
Which are you at the moment?
This course will help you find your way to living a life of purpose no matter what your circumstances.
What makes this course different? I have spent sixty years seeking the secrets to living the ideal life. I help thoughtful/insightful people fulfill their potential by exploring significant life challenges. The goal is a life of enlightened uncertainty. This course assumes even people who knowingly are living their best life will be uncertain that they are. And this is a good thing. Tomorrow is not to repeat today's successes, but another opportunity to be better: always wondering, always growing, always enjoying. At the end of this course, you will be able to create and continually refine your core values in life.
As mentioned, I did that for myself beginning when I was 17. And as in #4, I have been refining it ever since. I received a doctorate in psychology in 1973, which included classes with Abraham Maslow famous for the "Hierarchy of Needs" and Viktor Frankl, perhaps the best-known name in the field as the author of the world-wide best seller, Man's Search for Meaning.
If you are searching to find or enhance the meaning of your life, take a moment to examine this material. I will help you create your ideal life.
A Set of Courses for Exceptional Lives
My LIFE SKILLS courses are ideal if you want to live a unique, independent life, separate from the herd. They’re for you if you seek a full and meaningful life but aren’t sure how to do that.
Life isn’t easy. How can you know with confidence you’re doing it right? You have searched, but don’t yet feel totally confident. A thousand books and courses offer a thousand ideas. My courses go a step farther. I don't tell you what to think, but what to think about.
My courses follow that old saying, "if you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, if you teach him to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." I teach both skills and concepts. If you want both training and an education, this is the place, tools and ideas. Each course provides ideas to explore and skills to try out. You choose the topic and in about three hours or less, you’ll acquire advanced life skills, enabling you to build a life unique to you.
This set of courses is ideal for these topics: Personal Development, Life Purpose, Motivation, Communication Skills, Listening Skills, Relationship Building, Positive Psychology and Spirituality.