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Fatherless Women & Motherless Men: Impact On Your Love Life

The Impact on Adult Love Relationships. Coming to Emotional Health & Maturity Despite Difficult Beginnings in Childhood
Rating: 4.4 out of 54.4 (47 ratings)
236 students
Created by Gabriella Kortsch
Last updated 6/2017
English
English [Auto]
30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

What you'll learn

  • You will understand where your relationship issues come from & what you can do to improve them
  • You will have begun to eradicate the wariness or fear you may experience in certain relationship situations
  • You will have healthier & stronger boundaries
  • You will be well on the road to loving yourself
  • You will notice a clearly improved psychological and emotional quality of life
  • You will feel greater inner freedom in how you approach & deal with people

Requirements

  • There are no prerequisites other than an interest in this subject

Description

What happens to the adult woman who was raised without her father - possibly due to a lack of physical or emotional presence or a combination thereof? 

What happens to the adult man whose early maternal relationship was somehow not intact, or was dysfunctional, or perceived as unfulfilling? 

Motherlessness and fatherlessness frequently depends not on the death of the parent, but on the fact that the parent of the opposite gender is not there for the child in the way that is necessary for emotional, psychological, spiritual, and in some cases, even physical development to take place in a healthy fashion. Therefore, due to this lack of solid and cohesive parenting – which sometimes may occur even when the parent is doing their best - a dysfunctional mindset, behavior, or defense mechanism may evolve in the personality of the growing boy or girl.

Sometimes a father's physical presence may form part of the household, yet he may not be available for his daughter in the way that she hopes for as she searches his face in vain for a clue to her own identity; sometimes a mother believes she is doing her utmost to raise her son with love and attention, yet he feels as though he never received the love and support he so desperately sought from her as a child; as though he had been short-changed in the affection department.

Sometimes the parent is not actually present, due to divorce, abandonment, illness, or death; sometimes the parent is negligent, uncaring, or even abusive: in all these instances, the child suffers, and pays for it in his or her adult relationships … until he or she recognizes this and begins to work on resolving it. This course explores these issues, their recognition, and possible resolution.

Who this course is for:

  • Your father was either absent or somehow unavailable when you were a child
  • Your mother was either absent or somehow unavailable when you were a child
  • You feel that something is not right in your adult love relationships
  • You have noticed that you are often wary, or even fearful in certain areas of your adult love relationships
  • You have several failed adult love relationships
  • You typically fall in love with someone who sooner or later holds you at arm's length
  • You have noticed you have poor boundaries
  • You believe you do not love yourself

Featured review

pawan sud
pawan sud
38 courses
8 reviews
Rating: 5.0 out of 5a year ago
Though I am practicing Re parenting through TA . However the resources under item No. 38 superb. I did contact my little self, saw it crying, loved it s eyes body and its tenderness.This is something new in self discovery. I also like to hold my grandson. He loves me.

Course content

9 sections • 45 lectures • 4h 9m total length

  • Preview05:38
  • An In-Depth Look at Those Missing Parents & You
    15:02

  • Behavioral Patterns & Defense Mechanisms You May Have Built Up Part 1
    09:26
  • Behavioral Patterns & Defense Mechanisms You May Have Built Up Part 2
    06:50

  • Preview04:37
  • The Skills Our Parents Didn’t Learn Part 1
    06:01
  • The Skills Our Parents Didn’t Learn Part 2
    04:59
  • Understanding That You Will Need to Learn How to Parent Yourself
    05:46

  • Preview03:21
  • “Marianne”: Daddy’s Little Girl
    04:36
  • “Robin”: Daddy Never Saw Her - As Though She Never Existed
    02:29
  • “Janine”: Blind Love & Betrayal of the Girl by the Mother
    03:23
  • “Marilyn”: Love is Pain; Pain is Love
    02:30
  • “Maia”: You are so Precious & Wonderful - Only I Know How to Love You
    03:20

  • “Jonathan”: You’ll Never Measure Up to Your Father
    03:23
  • Preview03:00
  • “Richard”: Lovelessness & Rejection
    03:33
  • “Damien”: Perceived Betrayal
    02:44
  • "Victor”: I Will Spoil & Pamper You, But You May Not Grow Up
    03:23
  • “Sean”: You Owe Me
    03:06

  • Poor Self Esteem/Boundaries, Caretaking & Enabling Behavior, Fear of Rejection
    03:44
  • Perfectionism, Order, Control, Rebellion against Authority
    02:52
  • Self , "Self-Medicating”, Pseudo-Independence
    02:14
  • Neediness, Insecurity, Suspicion, Emotional Unavailability, Emotional Blunting
    03:21
  • Preview09:06
  • Lack of Self-Love, Self-Acceptance, Self-Respect
    02:17

  • Preview10:12
  • Awareness, Choice & Boundaries
    07:52
  • Pain, Forgiving & Self-Responsibility
    04:51
  • Life Meaning, Gratitude & Being Present
    02:44
  • Self-Soothing, Self-Love, Happiness
    06:39
  • Establishing the Inner Connection, Loving Others, Loving the World
    05:42

  • Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 1
    05:44
  • Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 2
    03:19
  • Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 3
    09:04
  • Step 2: Shoring Up Unhealthy Boundaries
    08:16
  • Step 3: Building Awareness Every Day
    12:03
  • Step 4: Finding Your Way to Self-Love
    11:20
  • Step 5: Recognizing & Replacing Unhelpful Self-Dialogue
    06:22
  • Step 6: Taking on Total Self-Responsibility: Part 1
    06:25
  • Step 6: Taking on Total Self-Responsibility: Part 2
    07:28
  • Step 7: Making It Your Goal to Forgive
    11:11
  • Step 8: Understanding That You Will Need to Learn How to Parent Yourself (2)
    05:23
  • Conclusion
    02:55

  • Bonus Content
    01:04

Instructor

Gabriella Kortsch
Bestselling Author, Psychotherapist, Relationship Coach
Gabriella Kortsch
  • 4.6 Instructor Rating
  • 195 Reviews
  • 729 Students
  • 3 Courses

Because of my work for over 25 years with clients from nearly 30 countries and all walks of life, teaching and helping them to find greater inner well-being, peace & joy in their lives, I am so very thrilled and honored to now be able to present Udemy students with much of the same in this easily accessible on-line course format, even if we're not sitting across from each other on two sofas in my office.

My work is in private practice as an integral (holistic) psychotherapist and life coach, clinical hypnotherapist, relationship coach, dream worker, EFT practitioner, and professional speaker. I also do past life regression work.

My first book Rewiring the Soul: Finding the Possible Self, was published in 2011, followed by my next three books: The Tao of Spiritual Partnership in 2012, The Power of Your Heart: Loving the Self in 2013, and Emotional Unavailability & Neediness: Two Sides of the Same Coin in 2014, all of which are available globally via Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and all fine online booksellers in print and e-book format. Rewiring the Soul was also published in German (Deine Seele und Du) in 2015 and in Spanish (Reconectar con el Alma) in 2016.

From here in southern Spain, I broadcast a live weekly show from 2003 - 2011, now available as archived audio files on my Advanced Personal Therapy website.

I work with clients locally in person and internationally via phone or SKYPE (in English, Spanish, and German) to move them towards greater personal, professional, and relationship success with an integral and human potential raising approach to life. See the site under my name Gabriella Kortsch for more information.

My clients and I work on the resolution of many problems related to the stresses of modern life in careers, relationships, sexuality, parents, children, health, goals, acculturation, spirituality, and life in general. More than anything else, I focus with my clients on sharing with them what I consider most important of all:  assuming absolute and total responsibility for the self.

In 2003 I participated in a symposium on human development at Harvard University in Boston and was galvanized in so many ways due to what the key note speaker there was discussing from an empirical point of view - something that the metaphysical world had already known for so long: everything we think, feel, say and do has an effect on our cells and our very DNA. I thought to myself then that we finally had something in hand for all those who used to reject so much simply because there had been no empirical proof.

I received my Ph.D. in Psychology from Florida International University (FIU) in Miami, Florida, where I also lectured for four years on a diversity of subjects in the psychology department. I'm also certified as a clinical hypnotherapist and have worked with abused children for the Guardian ad Litem program with the State of Florida, as well as with at risk adolescents (substance abuse, anger management, children of alcoholics, abused children, alternative life styles, dysfunctional families, etc.) through the Changing Lives Program with FIU. I have also worked extensively with terminal AIDS and cancer patients in hospice care in Mexico, USA, and Spain, and have been effective in bereavement counseling.

For the past 34 years I've studied a variety of clinical therapies and alternative healing modalities, including advanced psycho-energetic techniques, and I always attempt to maintain my toolbox well stocked with up-to-date information and techniques. I also studied Liberal Arts at the University of Waterloo in Canada, and Sociology & Political Science at the Complutense University in Madrid.

Born in Germany, raised in Canada and Switzerland, I also lived extensively in Mexico, Spain and the USA. I have three wonderful sons that make me so proud that I can hardly contain myself, and two beautiful grandchildren.

Long interested in Jungian analytic psychology, integral psychology, and dream interpretation, I have studied these together with mythology, compared religions, symbolism and related fields since 1969. In my private practice in Mexico, my clinical work in the USA, and my practice here in Marbella, both with individuals and groups, in my work with adults, adolescents and children, I strongly emphasize the holistic or integral (physical, psycho-emotional, and spiritual) human being.

My series of 12 workshops "The Conscious Journey Within” is offered locally and elsewhere by request.

Sign up for my cutting-edge monthly newsletter in English, Spanish or German, or browse through the articles my Advanced Personal Therapy website with well over 100 articles (no cost) about life, love, pain, consciousness, personal transformation and growth, or read more than 1000 posts on my blog Rewiring the Soul about similar subjects. I also have a blog in Spanish (Reconectar con el Alma) and another in German (Deine Seele und Du).

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