
In this lecture, we will learn, What is a Family? and we will hear about the basic needs and how they relate to a positive family environment.
Let's talk about the seven basic types of communication skills.
Watch the Video - Life Vest Inside - Think about how the people are interacting with each other and the ripple effect of our actions. Think of examples in your life where people's actions spoke louder than their words.
Your activity is to print it or draw it on a separate piece of paper and interview your child(ren). Individually.
This exercise is best performed by a non-parent, someone who your child doesn’t know. Why might that be? Because a stranger will Listen without judgment. Parents are heard saying things like, “You are better at basketball, not soccer.” “You like that you can touch your tongue to your nose? That’s gross!”
Ask the questions. Write down what they say - exactly. You can ask them to tell you more and continue to Listen. You can make noises like, “hmmm.” You can nod your head in understanding rather than approval.
After you ask, “Someone Who Can Help You?” write down what they say, and then have a Conversation. Who can help them other than their parents? Brainstorm and Teach them that there are positive resources outside of their home.
Once you have completed the activity, color it with your child and hang it on the refrigerator on bulletin board in your home. Re-visit the comments in a positive way, noticing and appreciating without asking more questions. "I sure like the way you picked the things you are good at." or I sure liked the way you thought about the people that can help you." or "I sure liked the way you colored the tree." Help them FEEL important.
In order to discuss control and choices with our children, we need to understand the basics of our child's development.
Think about your daily activities. Think about the TIME you have to talk with your child(ren). What gets in our way?
Click on the Word Art link in the resources.
You are going to create a word cloud similar to the one on the right.
In the word cloud website, click on the green button CREATE.
On the left side, Input a minimum of 15 words that describe YOUR roadblocks to communication with your child(ren).
Pick a shape, your font, a layout, and style.
Click visualize
The Forgiveness Video was removed from YouTube. I will replace as soon as I find one.
This course shares skills and concepts from many different parenting classes I have taken and taught over the years. I have picked the best practices and combined them into this course and added a few personal and practical tips from my own personal experience of raising my five children and through teaching children in the public school setting as well as volunteering for more than 30 years.
Families are the stability of our world and truly our future. We belong to our family and it is to be the safe place for us and each individual within. This course discusses the basics of belonging, how to recognize the importance of our basic needs being met so we can function within our family and in society. There are many skills (easy to learn) necessary to have us functioning at our best and instilling the same in our children and others in our home.
This course is designed for parents with children, YET all the skills (simple) can be imparted with other adults at home and at work, as teachers, and other areas of our life.
The quality of our lives is dependent on the positive relationships we have. This course focuses on building uplifting and fun memories within our families. Relationships with our Partners In Time: The people we spend the most time with as we travel through the adventures of life.
Family education focuses on enhancing adult practices and behaviors, such as developing and practicing positive and effective communication to develop long lasting and loving relationships with our children. This course focuses on expectations and age appropriate child development skills. To teach our children through empathy and natural consequences along with positive discipline techniques and embrace mistakes. To promote constructive cooperation and most importantly focus on the memories we make with our children and family each and every day.
Join me and find ways to make your home life better and extend it into the rest of society and world.