Face Reading

Who has innate self confidence

Who is cautious

How different people deal with the world, and with challenges, in different ways, and how to work with that so everyone is on board and feeling respected.

What about the people who have neither extreme obvious?

How the traits work in relation to other people, and why this is not about typing people by the way they look.

After this you can never again say you don't know how someone else feels.

This is what it means when no extreme is obvious.

Looking for dominant traits.

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Go through your photos and notice the width of the faces of the folks you are in relationship with, and how confident, or cautious you are when you are with them.

Go back through your photos and see if your face is wider or narrower throughout your life.

Notice it’s got nothing to do with how much weight you are carrying, you are measuring across the eye sockets compared to the length down the rest of the face, you don’t store fat there.

If you do notice a difference see if you can remember back to what was happening to you in your life at the time.

Had you lost, or gained confidence at those times??

This was the precise moment I decided Behavioral Genetics was something I wanted to know a LOT more about!

Communication isn't about what's said, it's about what's heard.

How to present new information in a way that people can best receive it.

Different thinking styles require different presentation styles.

This trait shows you how to get your points across without annoying the person, and letting them know you are on the same page.

What do you do when you need to present new information to more than one person at a time?

In this case a man who only wants the bottom line because results are his focus, and a woman who wants to see the whole picture before she proceeds, and needs every detail.

Here is how to respect both styles, let both people know you understand where they are coming from, and get your point across perfectly.

Sales people HAVE to know this trait, all by itself it raises sales figures disproportionately.

How this works on all faces - including Muppets.

How the traits work together, and in relation to who you are with.

Reiterating how to use them to improve your communication and benefit your life.

How our faces change, and why.

We go over a few points for the long thin face, process forehead students ;)

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Who in your life is always impatient to get things MOVING?

Who needs ALL the details and the big picture before going ahead?

Take a peek at their foreheads next time you see them.

Check your own slant in the mirror.

To hug or not to hug, you do NOT want to get this one wrong!

You have just 15 seconds to make a first impression.

This trait shows you how different people prefer to be approached.

Who is touchy feely, kick back casual.

Who needs you to be more formal. WAY more formal, let them make the first move or else.

• Heather is a wonderful example of choosing to override genetics.
• Understanding Behavioral Genetics helps us to make different behavior choices with more ease and compassion, and less self judgement.

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If you have very high eyebrows, consider extending connecting touch a bit sooner to safe looking new people, or at least understand beyond the obvious, their need to launch themselves at you.

If you have low eyebrows, hands off the high brows until they choose to let you in. Let them make the first move.

Observe what happens when you honor these traits, and when you go against them.

Safely and sanely experiment with touch and formality.

A glimpse of why I'm known as the Cosmic Ass Kicker as well as the Wish Granter.

HOW are YOU going to make use of this information to benefit you in YOUR relationships.

Different people have different points of focus creating very different ways of looking at the world.

This is what you need to know about dealing with each style so you can take it into account rather than taking it personally.

Don't take it personally, take it into consideration!

• More detail on this camera lens trait. Includes Q&A and a LOT of laughter.

A practical example of how the knowledge of this trait averted ill feeling and created perfect harmony for 3 families. But especially for Malka and Brian!

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Close set eyed people: When you feel the fires of indignation start to burn. Stop, breathe, look away, take a moment to consider what it is you are trying to achieve.

Other people aren’t as focused on the immediate detail, they have a different view, not better or worse, just different.

If you really must have something done right now, do it yourself.

Wide set eyed people: Set achievable goals, and make them happen, you know you mean to.

Leave extra time to get to meetings with close set friends and associates, it will determine how they feel about you.

Document what happens.

Some people love to be at home, they'd never travel just for the sake of it.

Others NEED physical change and adventure. To them a groove is just a few feet shallower than a grave.

An important trait to note when internet dating...

Conversation between high and low cheekbones. Listen to the traits talk.

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Check out the facial structure of different nomadic tribes. See what you notice.

How many of your high cheekbone friends have passports compared to your no cheekbone friends??

It's all in the nose bridge: Specifically Convex and Concave.

Are you a 'Beaky' or a 'Scoopy'?

Doctor or Nurse?

What about the people who have straight nose bridges?

What it means to be a scoopy and a beaky.

Hemispherical Variation really does divide the face, and the behavior.

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Beakys: Give your Scoopy friends the gift of quality, one on one time, it’s how they know you care about them.

Scoopy’s : Physical closeness is not always necessary for emotional closeness, be aware that your Beakys may have other considerations and don’t take it personally if they need to be off and making sure everyone else is cared for too. If you get the chance observe:

I hope you never have to, but if the opportunity comes up observe how many doctors have beakys vs scoopys

How many nurses have scoopys vs beakys?

Arguably the most intense trait of them all. It took me years to teach this without crying.

How to change your face by changing your behavior - without plastic surgery, I'm living proof.

This still blows my mind after more than 2 decades of teaching face reading.

Choose someone in your life that you want to understand better.

Print a good headshot of them - or just look at it on your phone...

I reckon a print out is better, but hey, I'm old school, do whatever works best for you.

Just be able to clearly see the face of someone you want to communicate more effectively with.

Start testing this stuff out!

How accurate is Face Reading?

Choose someone you know really well and see how accurate you think each trait is.

Only do this with traits that are dominant.

Deeper understanding of how to relate to these traits.

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Thin topped lip people, your JOYscription, should you decide to accept it, is to open up, even just a little, and talk to someone trustworthy about how you feel about something important to you. Play with growing your lip.

Big top lipped people, your JOYscription is to listen without interrupting.

Oh you are definitely going to want to know about this one!

It works for more than just icecream

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Thin bottom lip friends, your JOYscription, should you decide to accept it, is to practice being a little more trusting and giving to see how it feels.

What if you don’t get taken advantage of this time? What if the world starts opening up instead? You’ll never know unless you try...

Big bottom lip friends remember, charity begins at home, give first to yourself so that you have it to give.

Consider YOUR priorities before leaping in to fill that perceived need.

Chin challenges and how to overcome them.

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If you have an extreme forward jutting chin, remember to tuck it in if you are finding people seem to be unaccountably threatened by you.

Let them see your lovely eyes instead.

If your chin happens to be very recessed, you might have a tendency to believe you are going to be overlooked, even when it isn’t necessarily the case.

You DO have an equal opportunity for authority, let yourself stand up and be counted.