
In this initial lecture, Palma extends a warm welcome to the course and introduces herself. She explains why emotional regulation is key for emotional resilience, thriving, wellbeing and healthy relationships.
Palma gives an overview of how the course is structured and instructions on how to use it. In order to get out as much as you put in, try to give each lecture your full attention and take time to really do the guided reflection exercises provided. Start by journaling on why you are taking this course. What would you like to get out of it? How would you like to feel by the end of it? How will your life be better if you achieve your goal? What is a significant obstacle to achieving your goal for this course and what could you commit to doing to overcome this obstacle?
Download the supporting 'Workbook' document before moving to Section 2.
Palma provides a definition of emotions and invites you to take a closer look at your own emotional landscape. She explains how all emotions have their role to play in your 'psychological immune system' and offers an overview of the basic core emotions (such as enjoyment, sadness, anger, disgust and fear). She shares the story of a founder she worked with who had a very limited emotional landscape and provides a short reflection/writing exercise to help you reflect on your own emotions.
Palma speaks about the importance of self-awareness as the first step to self-mastery, noting that "we can only manage what we monitor". Referencing Harvard Professor Ellen Langer, who said that "most of us are on autopilot virtually almost all of the time", Palma explains how the first step to changing your experience is to become aware of your experience. You will also learn a simple exercise to start raising your self-awareness, which is called 'STOP'.
Palma speaks about the constantly changing nature of emotions, as well as the quiet backdrop to all of your experience, which is also called the 'inner witness'. She speaks about the interplay of thoughts, bodily sensations and emotions and how bringing curiosity to your experience in the present moment will help you to downregulate your emotions.
Palma shares a guided reflection designed to help you create more awareness around your emotions in the present moment, safely experience your emotions and downregulate your nervous system. This involves naming emotions present in your body, feeling the emotion in the body, describing the sensations and observing them with curiosity.
Palma shares an exercise that is designed to help you calm down your nervous system and shift your emotional state by actively cultivating positive emotions and regulating your heart rate. This exercise works with your breath and cultivating appreciation, to increase heart coherence and allow you to return to a calm state.
Palma guides a short loving-kindness meditation. According to contemplative neuroscience, loving-kindness meditation is the most effective meditation for rewiring our brains for the better. It strengthens our compassion muscle and helps us to be kinder to ourselves and help others from a place of strengths.
In this lecture, Palma offers two short writing exercises for working with difficult emotions such as fear, anger and sadness. You will also find these questions in your Workbook under Question 6.
Palma introduces the practice of five random acts of kindness and its evidence-based benefits for your emotional wellbeing. There is a growing body of research that suggests that doing something kind for someone else significantly raises our wellbeing, compared to doing something nice for ourselves.
Palma invites you to reflect on your main takeaways from this course and how you now feel about playing an active role in positively shaping your life. She encourages you to continue to use these exercises on a regular basis to help "rewire your brain" and experience increased wellbeing, joy and contentment in your life.
Emotions are a part of our lives, whether we like them or not. They can drive us to do better, or they can stop us from achieving our full potential. The way we register our environment influences our feelings, meaning that we have a conscious choice to embrace them or suppress them completely.
Embracing our emotions can seem like quite a difficult task in certain areas of our lives, especially in the workplace. The constant need to act in a professional manner can take a huge toll on our wellbeing, and this is largely due to the improper regulation of our emotions. This emotional mastery course will help you recognise and utilise your emotions in the healthiest way possible, meaning you can bounce back from adversity and always maintain a clear mind.
The course is heavily built upon exercises, allowing you to apply the content in real-life scenarios straight away. By focusing on emotional regulation and understanding how to deal with strong emotions, you will know exactly how to improve emotional wellbeing in the workplace. Not only that, but you will have a skill set that consists of empathy, understanding, and a newfound value for social connection.
With this increased social intelligence, you can spot the same emotions within people that you have experienced yourself, giving you the opportunity to teach them exactly what you have learned here.
By concluding with an excellent exercise on ‘random acts of kindness’, this course will give you a robust set of strategies to recognise and regulate your emotions, as well as others’. As this information is easily teachable, this course is ideal for business leaders that want to increase employee emotional wellbeing. After all, a happy workplace is a productive workplace.
Emotional wellbeing isn’t just something reserved for the workplace either. Since you will learn to regulate your emotions throughout the waking day, this course is perfect for anyone looking for a mindfulness boost that enhances their emotional recognition, empathy skills and most importantly, the abilities to feel better and to help others. Enrol today so you can feel better more of the time.