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How to Control Your Emotions by Knowing Yourself
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How to Control Your Emotions by Knowing Yourself

Self-Awareness & Emotional Intelligence for Public Professionals || Anxiety Management || Practical Leadership Tools ||
Last updated 7/2026
English

What you'll learn

  • Understand the psychological foundations of emotions and explain how thoughts, perceptions, and unconscious processes influence emotional reactions.
  • Identify the differences between the Core Self, Defensive Self, and Superficial Self, and recognize how each affects your behavior, communication, and decision-
  • Recognize emotional triggers and understand the concept of emotional hijacking to reduce impulsive reactions in challenging situations.
  • Develop greater emotional awareness by observing your thoughts, feelings, and behavioral patterns before responding.
  • Apply practical techniques to manage anger in a healthy and constructive manner, improving both personal and professional relationships.
  • Learn evidence-informed strategies to control anxiety, reduce emotional stress, and respond with greater confidence under pressure.
  • Strengthen emotional intelligence and self-awareness to improve communication, resilience, and overall emotional well-being.
  • Build a practical framework for responding thoughtfully rather than reacting emotionally, enabling better decisions in everyday life and the workplace.

Course content

5 sections9 lectures1h 0m total length
  • Course Introduction and Objectives3:04

Requirements

  • No prior knowledge of psychology, emotional intelligence, or personal development is required. This course is designed for beginners.
  • A willingness to reflect on your thoughts, emotions, and personal experiences with an open and growth-oriented mindset.
  • An interest in improving emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and emotional regulation in both personal and professional life.
  • A notebook or digital journal is recommended for recording personal reflections, emotional triggers, and key insights throughout the course.
  • A computer, tablet, or smartphone with internet access to watch the course lectures and complete the learning activities.

Description

Do you sometimes feel like an imposter in your job, or in other social and professional roles you play? Do anxiety, stress, or overwhelming emotions affect your decisions, relationships, or professional performance? Have you ever wondered why certain situations trigger strong emotional reactions while others do not? The answer often lies in understanding yourself at a deeper level.

How to Control Your Emotions by Knowing Yourself Better is a practical, beginner-friendly course that helps you understand the psychological foundations of emotional reactions, the critical role of your subconscious mind, and practical strategies to manage emotions effectively. Rather than teaching you to suppress emotions, this course focuses on understanding their origins so you can respond with greater clarity, confidence, and self-control.

This course is developed by Dr. Thomas A. Kamara (CEO of Excellent Strategies), based on his ground-breaking doctoral research on cognitive biases in public administration. This course offers a professional development platform to help individuals and organizations build self-awareness, emotional balance, and sustainable effectiveness in the workplace. Our approach is grounded in real-world professional experience and the understanding that thoughts, emotions, and internal reactions significantly impact communication, leadership, decision-making, and long-term career success. Instead of offering generic motivational advice, we focus on practical insights that learners can apply immediately in both their personal and professional lives.

What You'll Learn

Throughout this course, you will explore the psychology behind emotions and learn practical techniques to improve emotional regulation through the following modules:

  • Section 1: Introduction to the Course and Objectives

    • Course objectives and what you can expect to achieve.

  • Section 2: The Theory

    • Understand the fundamentals of Psychoanalytic Theory.

    • Explore the Core Self, Defensive Self, and Superficial Self, and discover how each influences your emotions, thoughts, and behaviors.

  • Section 3: The Cause

    • Learn how your perception shapes emotional experience and responses.

    • Understand Emotional Hijacking and why intense emotions can override logical thinking.

  • Section 4: The Fix

    • Develop greater Emotional Awareness through practical self-observation techniques.

    • Learn constructive methods to control anger before it controls you.

    • Discover practical strategies for managing anxiety, reducing emotional stress, and responding more calmly under pressure.

  • Section 5: Course Conclusion

    • Review the key concepts and create a roadmap for continuing your emotional growth beyond the course.

At Excellent Strategies, our mission is to help professionals understand what is happening internally so they can respond with intention rather than reaction. This philosophy is reflected throughout the course, where every lesson is designed to bridge the gap between psychological insight and practical action. By applying these concepts, you can improve workplace communication, reduce unnecessary stress, strengthen relationships, and make more thoughtful decisions under pressure.

Whether you are a student, working professional, manager, team leader, entrepreneur, or simply someone interested in personal development, this course provides practical tools to help you build emotional resilience and lasting self-awareness.

By the end of this course, you will have a clearer understanding of why emotions arise, how they influence your behavior, and what you can do to regulate them effectively. Emotional intelligence begins with self-understanding, and lasting emotional control comes from recognizing your internal patterns before they shape your external actions.

If you're ready to understand yourself better, strengthen your emotional intelligence, and develop the confidence to respond thoughtfully in challenging situations, enroll today and begin your journey toward greater emotional awareness and personal growth.

Who this course is for:

  • Students and lifelong learners who want to better understand their emotions and develop stronger emotional intelligence.
  • Working professionals seeking to improve self-awareness, manage workplace stress, and respond more effectively in challenging situations.
  • Managers, supervisors, team leaders, and business professionals who want to strengthen their leadership, communication, and decision-making by improving emotional regulation.
  • Individuals who struggle with anger, anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or impulsive reactions and are looking for practical, psychology-based strategies to manage their emotions.
  • Anyone interested in personal growth, psychology, self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and building healthier relationships at home and at work.
  • Coaches, trainers, HR professionals, and educators who want to gain a foundational understanding of emotional behavior to better support others in their personal or professional development.