
Discover how knowing yourself—through the superficial self, core self, and defensive self—enables calm, intentional emotion management, daily practices, and better communication for personal and professional success.
Psychoanalytic theory is a way of understanding human behavior, emotions, and personality. It emphasizes the influence of the unconscious mind on how we think and what we do.
Identify and label the three self-constructs—core, defensive, and superficial—to understand how internal emotions and cognitive biases shape professional behavior and decisions.
Perception shapes emotions and actions by lenses of the superficial, core, and defensive selves; pause, adjust your mindset, and transform reality.
Explore how emotional hijacking works, from trigger to interpretation, defense, and reaction, and learn to recognize internal processes that fuel overreactions and protect the defensive self.
Develop emotional awareness by reading emotions as they develop, identify where the emotion comes from and what meaning you assign, and distinguish superficial, core, and defensive self to prevent reactions.
Learn to treat anger as a messenger of underlying pain, pause before reacting, check the core self for triggers, and choose calm, constructive responses that protect relationships and integrity.
Identify the core emotion behind anxiety and how imagined futures relate to your values. Calm the body with slow breathing, longer exhales, and relaxed shoulders to ease the mind.
Explore Freud's iceberg model and the id, ego, and superego to understand core, defensive, and superficial selves, and how the subconscious shapes emotions and perception.
Do you sometimes feel like an imposter in your job, or in other social and professional roles you play? Do anxiety, stress, or overwhelming emotions affect your decisions, relationships, or professional performance? Have you ever wondered why certain situations trigger strong emotional reactions while others do not? The answer often lies in understanding yourself at a deeper level.
How to Control Your Emotions by Knowing Yourself Better is a practical, beginner-friendly course that helps you understand the psychological foundations of emotional reactions, the critical role of your subconscious mind, and practical strategies to manage emotions effectively. Rather than teaching you to suppress emotions, this course focuses on understanding their origins so you can respond with greater clarity, confidence, and self-control.
This course is developed by Dr. Thomas A. Kamara (CEO of Excellent Strategies), based on his ground-breaking doctoral research on cognitive biases in public administration. This course offers a professional development platform to help individuals and organizations build self-awareness, emotional balance, and sustainable effectiveness in the workplace. Our approach is grounded in real-world professional experience and the understanding that thoughts, emotions, and internal reactions significantly impact communication, leadership, decision-making, and long-term career success. Instead of offering generic motivational advice, we focus on practical insights that learners can apply immediately in both their personal and professional lives.
What You'll Learn
Throughout this course, you will explore the psychology behind emotions and learn practical techniques to improve emotional regulation through the following modules:
Section 1: Introduction to the Course and Objectives
Course objectives and what you can expect to achieve.
Section 2: The Theory
Understand the fundamentals of Psychoanalytic Theory.
Explore the Core Self, Defensive Self, and Superficial Self, and discover how each influences your emotions, thoughts, and behaviors.
Section 3: The Cause
Learn how your perception shapes emotional experience and responses.
Understand Emotional Hijacking and why intense emotions can override logical thinking.
Section 4: The Fix
Develop greater Emotional Awareness through practical self-observation techniques.
Learn constructive methods to control anger before it controls you.
Discover practical strategies for managing anxiety, reducing emotional stress, and responding more calmly under pressure.
Section 5: Course Conclusion
Review the key concepts and create a roadmap for continuing your emotional growth beyond the course.
At Excellent Strategies, our mission is to help professionals understand what is happening internally so they can respond with intention rather than reaction. This philosophy is reflected throughout the course, where every lesson is designed to bridge the gap between psychological insight and practical action. By applying these concepts, you can improve workplace communication, reduce unnecessary stress, strengthen relationships, and make more thoughtful decisions under pressure.
Whether you are a student, working professional, manager, team leader, entrepreneur, or simply someone interested in personal development, this course provides practical tools to help you build emotional resilience and lasting self-awareness.
By the end of this course, you will have a clearer understanding of why emotions arise, how they influence your behavior, and what you can do to regulate them effectively. Emotional intelligence begins with self-understanding, and lasting emotional control comes from recognizing your internal patterns before they shape your external actions.
If you're ready to understand yourself better, strengthen your emotional intelligence, and develop the confidence to respond thoughtfully in challenging situations, enroll today and begin your journey toward greater emotional awareness and personal growth.