
Explore the tools and techniques used by the abuser within relationships. The section presents detailed examples of these tools and previews further case study illustrations later in the course.
Triangulation in abusive relationships uses a third party or the threat of a rival to provoke jealousy or sympathy. The tactic undermines confidence, fosters dependency, and reinforces the abuser's control.
Recognize how an abuser isolates you to control you, sever support networks, and coerce silence, and learn manipulation tactics that begin with seemingly reasonable requests to spend more time together.
This lecture highlights how criticism, both indirect and direct, erodes self-worth in abusive relationships, showing how indirect remarks target behavior and words, while direct insults devastate confidence.
Explore gaslighting in domestic abuse against men, with real examples of how abusers blame the victim, rewrite events, dismiss proof, and manipulate through false statements.
Visit the website for details on domestic abuse against men and read blog articles and the book Such Reckless Hate Real Stories from Male Survivors of Domestic Abuse for guidance.
**This course now includes a full free copy of the audiobook - Such Reckless Hate: Real Stories from Male Survivors of Domestic Abuse**
With every course sold, profits get donated directly to Abused Men in Scotland, a brilliant men’s abuse charity that’s been doing incredible work supporting male victims of domestic abuse.
Domestic abuse against men is real — and it's happening far more often than most people realize.
Yet because of shame, stigma, and the fear of not being believed, many men stay silent — even while enduring emotional, physical, financial, and legal abuse behind closed doors.
This course is here to break that silence.
Taught by men’s advocate, published author, and survivor Jared Whitaker, this course dives deep into the truths society often ignores — from gaslighting and coercive control to false allegations and systemic failures. You’ll gain the tools, knowledge, and perspective to understand male victims of abuse — whether you are one, support one, or work with men professionally.
What You'll Learn (30+ Lecture Modules):
The real signs of abuse against men — including emotional and legal abuse
The tools and tactics abusers use to control their victims
Why so many men suffer in silence — and how to help them speak out
How false allegations, alienation, and legal systems are weaponized
Real-world stories and case studies based on lived experience
What recovery looks like — and how men can begin healing
Resources, next steps, and how to access support
Who This Course Is For:
Men currently or formerly in abusive relationships
Friends, family, and partners who want to better understand and support male victims
Therapists, support workers, coaches, and professionals working with men
Anyone seeking a deeper, honest look at the hidden side of domestic abuse
About the Instructor:
I'm Jared Whitaker — author of Why Didn’t You Just Leave Them?, speaker, and founder of Strong Men. I’ve helped thousands of men navigate abuse, false allegations, trauma, and recovery. I’ve lived it, researched it, and spoken on it publicly for over a decade.
Yes, I’m tattooed. Yes, I’m direct.
But more than anything, I’m here to tell the truth others won’t — because male victims deserve to be heard.
Student Review:
“This course finally gave me the words I didn’t know I needed. Jared speaks truthfully and compassionately. Every man needs to hear this.”
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