
Develop self compassion by transforming self-hatred through lovingkindness meditation learned after a 10-day retreat in India, with practical skills for students and counselors.
Explore what self compassion means through common humanity and mindfulness, and practice basic self-care, soothing techniques, and cbt/dbt/act-informed strategies for a compassionate mind and body.
Learn to treat yourself with the same compassion you offer a friend during tough times by journaling 5–10 supportive actions, scoring self-compassion, and using calendar reminders to improve.
Learn to forgive yourself and others by recognizing mistakes, practicing self-compassion, and using the Sedona method's three questions: could I let go, would I let go.
Learn the i am okay, you are okay model from transactional analysis to build self-compassion and self-acceptance, with a practical exercise to repeat 'i am okay'.
Learn to practice self compassion by setting realistic expectations, embracing authenticity, and reducing resistance to live in alignment with your internal compass and the path of least resistance.
Practice self-compassion by staying patient with yourself through good and bad times, recognizing negativity bias, using opposite-to-emotion actions, and allowing time to process and relax.
Take on body care basics: exercise regularly, eat right, and take breaks, bridging knowledge and practice with self compassion. Cultivate self soothing skills from dialectical behavior therapy for stress management.
Practice mindfulness through meditation techniques to create distance from your mind, gain a broader perspective, and cultivate grounded compassion regardless of changing moods.
Practice cognitive diffusion from acceptance and commitment therapy to observe thoughts and emotions as transient, not you, labeling and letting go to create distance and calm.
Identify yourself as the context behind your experiences and observe thoughts, emotions, and identities without becoming them, applying mindfulness and the self as context idea from acceptance and commitment therapy.
Anapana meditation to cultivate mindfulness and present-moment awareness by observing the breath at the nostrils with nonjudgmental attention, because awareness alone is curative.
Practice loving-kindness meditation to cultivate love, kindness, and friendship toward self and others, using phrases such as may I be free from danger and may I be happy and peaceful.
Reflect on the value you gained from this self-compassion course and share your feedback and ratings. Follow the instructor on YouTube and Facebook for more resources and updates.
Join this optional guest lecture on CFT therapy basics (part 1) to soften your inner critic and cultivate self-compassion.
Explore CFT therapy basics and how self-compassion helps soften the inner critic in this guest lecture, part 2.
Self-Compassion & the Inner Critic: An Introduction to CFT
Many people experience a persistent inner voice that is highly self-critical, judgmental, or demanding. This course explores the psychological concepts behind self-criticism and introduces ways of understanding this inner pattern through Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) and mindfulness.
The course provides an accessible introduction to self-compassion, compassionate self-talk, mindfulness, and the relationship between thoughts, emotions, and self-evaluation. It is designed for educational purposes, personal learning, and self-reflection.
What You Will Learn
Understand Self-Criticism: Explore common patterns of harsh self-evaluation and how they can influence thoughts, emotions, and behavior.
Learn the Foundations of CFT: Develop a basic understanding of Compassion Focused Therapy and its approach to self-compassion.
Explore the Inner Critic: Examine how self-critical patterns can develop and how they may show up in everyday situations.
Explore Self-Compassion: Learn about the concepts of self-kindness, self-acceptance, and responding to personal difficulties with greater understanding.
Understand Mindfulness: Explore how mindful awareness can help you notice thoughts and emotional experiences without immediately reacting to them.
Practice Through Exercises: Use guided exercises, meditation practices, and worksheets to explore the concepts introduced in the course.
Develop Personal Insight: Reflect on your own patterns of self-criticism, emotional responses, and ways of relating to yourself.
Topics Covered
Understanding the Inner Critic
Explore what self-criticism is, how it can appear in everyday life, and some psychological factors associated with harsh self-evaluation.
Introduction to Compassion Focused Therapy
Learn the foundational ideas behind CFT and its focus on compassion, emotional regulation, and the way people relate to themselves.
Self-Compassion
Explore the concepts of self-kindness, common humanity, and mindful awareness as components of self-compassion.
Mindfulness
Learn foundational mindfulness concepts and practices for observing thoughts, emotions, and internal experiences with greater awareness.
Working With Self-Critical Thoughts
Explore exercises that encourage noticing self-critical patterns and developing alternative, more balanced ways of responding to yourself.
Course Materials
The course includes:
Guided exercises
Mindfulness and meditation audio practices
Downloadable worksheets
Self-reflection activities
Practical examples to help explain key concepts
Who This Course Is For
Students: Psychology, counseling, social work, and related students interested in CFT and self-compassion.
Psychology Enthusiasts: Anyone interested in understanding self-criticism, mindfulness, and compassion from a psychological perspective.
Personal Learning: Individuals who want to explore self-compassion and develop greater awareness of their own self-critical patterns.
Helping Professionals: Those who want an introductory educational overview of CFT concepts.
Important Note
This is an educational and self-help course. It is intended for learning, personal reflection, and general understanding of Compassion Focused Therapy and mindfulness.
The course does not diagnose or treat anxiety, depression, trauma, or other mental health conditions and does not qualify you to practice counseling or psychotherapy. It is not a substitute for professional assessment, treatment, clinical supervision, or formal professional training.