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Dating Masterclass
Rating: 4.6 out of 5(39 ratings)
1,048 students

Dating Masterclass

Dating can be very difficult. Come & learn some amazing skills that will make it much easier to find success & enjoy it!
Created byEric Pabst
Last updated 2/2025
English
English [Auto],

What you'll learn

  • The #1 cause of relationship issues and how to overcome it.
  • Some golden dating tips from someone with 15+ years of experience.
  • The deeper obstacles that are in your way and how to remove them.
  • How to kill a fear in minutes.
  • How to find people with emotional intelligence.
  • The importance of emotional safety and being genuine in order to connect.
  • How to create and bring your safety with you.
  • 5 powerful questions that help remove fears, insecurities, frustrations, and unhealthy expectations.
  • 2 magic questions to find out if someone is emotionally intelligent.
  • Some of the best places to meet people.

Course content

1 section26 lectures1h 11m total length
  • Introduction5:02

    Embark on a journey from insecurities to finding a forever partner by tackling fears, using a trigger spectrum and practical dating steps to meet emotionally intelligent partners.

  • 2, Steps to Accomplish a Big Goal or Vision1:10

    Increase your capacity as the first step toward a big goal or vision, addressing fear, procrastination, and willpower struggles that block you from meeting people and taking action.

  • Increasing Your Capacity3:11

    Address physiological needs first—breathing, hydration, energy-boosting foods, sleep, movement, nature—then attend to spiritual needs, gratitude, prayer, and finally emotional and mental needs through journaling, connection, and self-care.

  • Trigger Buster Intro0:49

    Remove insecurities and fears to date with confidence. Join a group to normalize rejection, be ourselves more, embrace imperfect matches, and stay present.

  • Trigger Buster Questions 1 & 21:51

    Explore trigger buster questions about self-perceived attractiveness, trust the process, and learn how non-physical factors shape attraction, since beauty is subjective and personality can outshine looks.

  • Trigger Buster Question 32:01

    Identify your emotional and behavioral reactions to the thought 'i'm not attractive enough,' including fear, isolation, and loss of confidence. Reflect on these patterns to re-engage with dating in person.

  • Trigger Buster Extra Question0:29

    Identify underlying desires behind the thought of not feeling attractive, such as wanting to be attractive or to find someone who wants me, and hold onto those desires.

  • Trigger Buster Question 41:11

    Visualize yourself exactly as you are without the thought that you're not attractive enough. Imagine how you would feel, behave, and interact, gaining confidence, well-being, and openness in dating.

  • Trigger Buster Question 5A2:23

    Apply trigger buster 5A to reframe self-talk about attractiveness, swap 'I' with 'my negative thinking', and choose positivity. Learn to separate expectations from desires to foster happier relationships.

  • Trigger Buster Question 5B0:23

    Swap the people in a statement to reveal truth, turning 'they should want to be with me' into 'I should want to be with them,' and assess the new insight.

  • Trigger Buster Question 5C2:35

    Recall specific past moments when you felt attractive, phrase the past positively, and activate your subconscious mind to boost confidence and peace in relationships.

  • Trigger Buster Question 5D2:04

    Turn negative beliefs into affirmations about worth and attractiveness, embracing inner beauty and genuine connections to attract the right partner. Focus on self-work to reveal your true self beyond appearance.

  • Trigger Buster Outro1:33

    The trigger buster prompts your brain to rewire neural pathways, producing lasting shifts in negative self-talk about attractiveness. Repeat the trigger buster questions to diminish intertwined thoughts and reclaim confidence.

  • Kill Fears6:24

    Apply the kill fears tool to identify dating fears, explore worst-case scenarios, and develop practical steps to cope or prevent outcomes, fostering honesty and resilience in dating.

  • Be Genuine1:40

    Be genuine in dating by letting go of insecurities with the Trigger Buster and kill fears, then prioritize safety, healthy boundaries, and simply be you.

  • Busting Frustrations and Unhealthy Expectations3:48

    This dating masterclass helps you bust frustrations and unhealthy expectations using the trigger buster, fostering trust, clear boundaries, and authentic desire without pressure or control.

  • Trigger Spectrum0:56

    Identify and manage your triggers by focusing on the pink or red area. Reduce huge, frequent reactions; focus on these first three steps, leaving insignificant triggers.

  • Finding People with Emotional Intelligence3:07

    Learn to identify people with emotional intelligence by seeking nonjudgmental attitudes, genuine smiles, and healthy habits, while avoiding rescue fantasies and loving someone for their potential.

  • Magic Questions to Ask People1:44

    Discover two magic questions to gauge emotional intelligence: how you handle undesired emotions and what guides your time, revealing if you lean into emotions and live from passion.

  • The #1 Cause of Relationship Issues1:00

    Identify judgmental thinking as the #1 cause of relationship issues and establish a shared process to work through it. Prevent annoyances from piling up and cultivate a beautiful relationship.

  • Cloud 9 vs. Fog 91:54

    Explore cloud nine as the short-term honeymoon phase and its painful fall, versus fog nine, a grounded, safe, and authentic love where physical, emotional, spiritual, and intellectual connections thrive.

  • Eric's Dating Theory0:27

    Dating theory suggests building yourself and working through your major triggers to attract a great match guided by a higher power; readiness unlocks an awesome connection.

  • Syra's Golden Dating Tips14:52

    Syra shares golden dating tips from personal experience, urging you to rock what you’ve got, become the person you seek, and celebrate every dating win.

  • Where to Meet People2:49

    Learn how networking, not dating apps, helps you meet people through groups, podcasts, book clubs, and in-person events while staying authentic and starting with group activities.

  • Conclusion6:15

    Apply a trigger buster to conquer dating fears, manage expectations, and use magic questions to ask people, increasing dating capacity through the dating masterclass conclusion.

  • Bonus Resources1:55

    Explore self-love and confidence through one-on-one coaching, including a free first session, a five-day challenge, and access to a free audio coach with trigger buster and kill fears tools.

Requirements

  • No prior experience or learning needed.
  • Willingness to try a revolutionary approach.

Description

Would you like a little help with how to approach dating?
Does dating feel scary, intimidating, or hopeless?
Do you feel like you're not attractive enough?
Struggling to find the amazing people out there?

Fear of failure and not being good enough
is something I've experienced for much of my life.
When I entered the dating world,
I didn't know what I was doing,
and made all kinds of mistakes.

I applied the valuable knowledge
that I had gained as a life coach,
and tried things until they worked.
I learned a TON!

Now my life is wonderful!!!

I successfully navigated the dating world
and am now in a marriage
that is better than I could have imagined. 

Syra and I are so incredibly happy together.
We adore each other,
and we know how to overcome
any obstacles between us.

We've been married for over two years,
and it still feels like we're on our honeymoon.
We like to say we live in Fog 9.
It's like Cloud 9, but it's beautifully on the ground.

Let me show you how.

I've gathered up what I've done and packaged it into
a training that will get you started to do the same.
It includes the most important aspects to approaching dating.

Who this course is for:

  • This course is for people who are single who would like help on how to approach dating.