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Date With Confidence

Name: Date With Confidence
Rating: 4.4 (22 reviews)

Learn how to act and show up differently to finally get the relationship you really want.

Created byTamara Pflug

Last updated 5/2023

English

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What you'll learn

You'll feel comfortable, peaceful and confident while going on dates.
You'll uncover the best ways to make someone fall in love with you!
You'll maximize your chance to build a strong romantic relationship.
You'll take the pressure off dating.
You'll finally have fun while going on dates.

Course content

8 sections • 50 lectures • 5h 45m total length

Welcome! Start here :)0:36
Welcome to Date With Confidence!

I am SO happy and honored to be your guide and your friend through this journey! :)

I really can’t wait to share with you all of what has worked for me to trust myself when it comes to dating! It's really not easy and I'm so happy that you trust me :)

I honestly went on many dates and all of what I learned is in this course!
Why me? Why not me! :)
Thank's to my life coaching training and my life coaching clients, I learned A LOT and I truly think that if you follow everything I'm sharing in this course, you can go on dates and find someone to love and that will love you too!
You have nothing to lose to see what I have to say and trying new things! :)

Also, I want you to know that you’re not alone!
As I said, I’m not only your guide, but I’m also a friend :), ALWAYS feel free to write me, to share with me how you’re feeling and what has worked for you or any questions you may have. You are definitely not alone and if there is someone that can get you, that’s me! :)

By finishing this course, you’ll be able to…

Put yourself out there and go on many dates!
Start talking to people you never talked to before!
Be your true self while doing this!
Create a real connection with more than one person!
Be ready to build a long-lasting relationship with someone else!
And have fun on the way to all of this crazy journey! :)

To you for putting yourself out there and ROCK this dating scene! I believe in you! :)

Always, feel free to write to me! I’m there for you :)

Tamara
Disclosure and disclaimer0:30
Change your life FOREVER, GET COACHED!!2:17
Your next step to take your life from being GOOD to being AMAZING, is by getting COACHED!! :)
On a scale of 1 to 10, how satisfied are you with your life?
If you answer 6 for example, what if your life is actually only a 2!!! And you can get MUCH MORE FUN & JOY out of it!!! :)
I absolutely LOVE coaching people and I can't wait to show you how we can take your life to a 15!!!
Look for me on Google, Tamara, fun and confidence coach and let's talk you and me!! It's going to be FUN & AMAZING! :)
Thank YOU for your help!! :)1:10
Thank you so much for leaving a review or feedback!
This can help so many more people to feel more confident!! You're helping them too by doing it!
Have a wonderful day and do not forget that I'm always there for you!! :)
Do not hesitate to be in touch if I can help you with anything!
Tamara

Trust your FUTURE SELF5:36
Visualize your future self before, during, and after the date, then act like her today and show compassion to your present self to build love and confidence.
Create your future from your future5:51
Plan for obstacles-challenges3:58
Plan ahead to anticipate obstacles and know what to do in the moment, using affirmations and practical self-talk to overcome dating fears, stay present, and pursue your goals.
The idea of a 90-day relationship...7:49
Explore a 90-day relationship as a short-term dating container to explore compatibility, authenticity, and growth. Learn to set boundaries, discuss expectations, handle obstacles, and prioritize self-love while having fun.
Handle rejection and having your heart broken14:44
Learn to handle rejection and heartbreak by reframing pain, building inner confidence, and showing up authentically in dating. This lesson offers practical steps to manage emotions and date with resilience.

The right mindset when you decide you want to meet someone PART 111:53
The right mindset when you decide you want to meet someone PART 215:05
In this video, I'm talking about discovering your values! For this, you can grab the FREE PDF that I created on that topic! :)
Thoughts and Beliefs to change your mindset!10:38
Practice daily meditation and visualization to observe your thoughts, coach yourself with positive beliefs, and shift your mindset toward calmer self-awareness and confident actions in relationships.
How to create opportunities and meet new people8:31
How to be approachable6:36
Becoming approachable means relaxing physically and mentally, staying in the moment, and engaging with open-minded, authentic listening and questions to connect with others; practice nonverbal cues to show openness.
How to start talking to someone10:32
Just a small message here to tell you that... You can do this!!! :)
You're amazing and just by being there, you are awesomely taking care of yourself and your life! Congrats for that my friend!!! :)
How to get someone’s number and email8:05
Overcome rejection fears and confidently ask for a person's number or contact info by creating a natural bridge, practicing responses, and leaving a relaxed, positive impression.
How to communicate through messages9:46
Master natural messaging in dating with tips on timing, asking questions, and avoiding games. Keep your life active outside dating to keep conversations effortless and authentic.
Organizing the date5:53
Organize dates with specific, original invitations—exhibitions, coffee, cinema, or theater—paired with clear times and places. Stay authentic, keep costs reasonable, and explore multiple conversations to reduce pressure.
Secrets to online dating...2:58
Explore how online dating can fit into your love strategy, with fun profiles, recent pictures, and engaging questions on one or two apps like OkCupid, Tinder, or Bumble.

The right mindset while being on a date12:14
Adopt a present, authentic mindset for dating, stay curious about others, and treat yourself as the prize. Practice dating, be flexible, empathetic, and avoid overthinking to enjoy meaningful connections.
How to get ready for the date6:49
What to talk about during the date14:29
Learn to talk naturally on a date by focusing on the person, listening with intent, asking genuine questions about interests and life, and building a deep, authentic connection without pressure.
How to feel comfortable and authentic6:38
Discover how to feel comfortable and authentic on dates by cultivating self-acceptance, shedding the need for others' approval, and staying true to your values.
How to disagree during a date… Discovering that you don’t have the same values11:36
I wanted to add something here.
I know that it can get very hard to meet lots of people, to go on dates, and to talk to many people that can be kind of "creatures" because of what they say and how they behave :)
But honestly, it all depends on the way you look at it!
I'm CONVINCED that there is someone out there for you (and I totally believe that there is more than 1 person, so you have more chances ;) ) and that each time you are putting yourself out there with someone, you are creating more opportunities to meet them.
Finding someone to be with is like many skills that we can develop: There will be ups and downs, and it won't be always easy but if you are committed and determined that this is what you want, you're not going to let anything stop you :)
In summary, go out there, talk to many people, go on many dates, disagree with people, be open-minded, and at some point, in all of these creatures, there will be someone amazing for you! That's been looking for you too! :)
Remember: 20% of your efforts bring you 80% of your results... You're going to meet 80% of people you won't end up with! Stick and persevere to find the 20%!!! :)
You can do this!! I'm 100% convinced of this!
Don't have a PLAN B, stick with PLAN A until it works!!! :)
Drinking and eating on the date4:05
This video made me hungry...
When it comes to pay for the meal, drinks…7:04
Explore how paying the bill relates to romance and connection, emphasizing listening, presence, and shared meaning over who pays. Do not judge; focus on connection and care.
How not to fall into the friend-zone and create attraction/sexual tension5:52
How to end a date5:00
What about sex…6:11
Explore how to approach sex on a date with confidence, honor intuition, be yourself, and decide freely without pressure, recognizing sex can be both expression and fun.
How to make them fall in love!5:23
Explore how to make the other person feel seen, heard, and understood by asking meaningful questions and listening intently. Build a deep connection through eye contact, presence, and genuine interest.

The right mindset after a date7:54
Reflect on compatibility and values after a date, then continue your life, bloom yourself first, give space, and stay open to what's next while dating many people.
How to text, message after a date15:44
Learn to text after a date with a natural, balanced 50/50 approach, show you have a life, and keep the conversation casual while dating multiple people.
How to get to see that person after2:37
Navigate dating after a first date with a 50/50 mindset, stay true to yourself, keep your life active, and engage naturally to see if there’s a good fit.
How to know where we’re going...9:02
Balance patience and vulnerability in dating, focus on enjoying the moment, communicating openly about where it's going, and letting the relationship unfold naturally.
How to say to someone we don’t want to see them anymore1:34

How to build a happy long-lasting relationship7:23
I'm mentioning my PDF + video to help you improve your relationships (no matter the nature of the relationship!), check it out here, I think that it's GOLD :)
Dating and social media2:54
Jealousy and the exs2:17
Meeting the family and friends2:39
Date with confidence: meeting the family and friends balances comfort and spontaneity while being yourself. Dress clean, not too fancy; listen with eye contact and organize a time and place.
Finding the right balance3:34
Find the right balance by organizing time for your career, yourself, family, friends, and a new relationship, recognizing phases require shifting focus.
How to feel more self-confident with your partner/spouse3:37
Build self-confidence by staying an individual within a relationship, owning your life, beliefs, and needs, and letting your partner support you while you avoid taking others' feelings personally.

EXTRA: How to handle a fight and get the best out of it!12:33
EXTRA: UNIQUE Video: What's going on inside of a man's head while dating? PART 13:05
Get the point of view of a MAN!
What's going on inside of a guy's head on dates?
Let's see what Adi has to say! :)
EXTRA: UNIQUE Video: What's going on inside of a man's head while dating? PART 25:00
Learn how dating expectations and games can push men away, and how confidence, natural authenticity, and easy conversation attract them, with the idea of a woman as the prize.
EXTRA: Exclusive advice from Anouk, a friend dating with confidence!20:21
Anouk is a dear friend of mine from middle school!
We are getting along so much, I feel very connected to her!
Her open-mindedness is so inspiring, discover what GREAT advice she's giving when it comes to being more confident while dating.

P.S. Again, if you put the video on "full screen", you're going to see Anouk at a normal size :)
EXTRA: Exclusive advice from Francis, a friend dating with confidence!17:24
Francis is really amazing!
She always has lots of stories to share and has tons of knowledge on many topics!
She's a very interesting person and I'm so honored that she shared some of the best tips to be confident while dating!
Discover what GREAT advice she's giving when it comes to being more confident while dating.

P.S. If you put the video on "full screen", you're going to see Francis at a normal size :)
Your Date With Confidence workbook!0:02
Use this workbook through your journey of finding love! :)
Your Date With Confidence notebook!0:03
Use this notebook to take notes and to have them right when you need them! :)

Requirements

You'll just need to be open-minded to try something different to find love!

Description

The revolutionary course that makes dating fun again!

It's always the same…

You feel like it's "tough out there".

You feel like men/women aren't ready to commit, that they are "emotionally unavailable".

You're tired of going on dates that lead you "nowhere".

Everybody is in a relationship and you wonder sometimes "What's wrong with me?".

I GET YOU!

After going on date after date, adding up to that number that shows "error" on a calculator, and FINALLY finding love, I found out what truly works when it comes to dating and building a strong relationship.

After you'll go through my unique process...

You'll feel comfortable, peaceful and confident while going on dates.

You'll uncover the best ways to make someone fall in love with you!

You'll You'll maximize your chance to build a strong romantic relationship.

You'll take the pressure off dating.

You'll finally have fun while going on dates.

In Date With Confidence you'll get access to:

Short and accurate videos, make learning fast and effortless.

Practical tools on how to act and show up differently around men.

Mindset hacks to lower the pressure going on dates and having more fun.

The only course in the market that goes straight to the point and focuses on practicality.

Who this course is for:

Everybody that wants to find love!

Date With Confidence

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Course content

WELCOME!4 lectures • 5min

MODULE 1: Finding LOVE with confidence5 lectures • 38min

MODULE 2: Self-confident before the date10 lectures • 1hr 30min

MODULE 3: Self-confident during the date11 lectures • 1hr 25min

MODULE 4: Self-confident after the date5 lectures • 37min

MODULE 5: Build a great relationship and be your most confident self6 lectures • 22min

EXTRA!7 lectures • 58min

CONGRATULATIONS, YOU DID IT! :)2 lectures • 10min

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