
Jean Franzblau introduces cuddle therapy, its guardrails for safe practice, the actual work, logistics, and bonuses, highlighting the world's interest and the need for care.
Examine licensure and certification guidelines for practicing massage therapy with intimate services. Understand the rules and legal considerations as you potentially pioneer this work.
Explore the emotional labor involved in cuddle therapy, learning how to manage your own emotions while supporting deep client emotions, and plan stamina for daily sessions.
Navigate and maintain professional boundaries in cuddle therapy by recognizing the risk of clients seeking friendship or romance, given intimate sharing and physical closeness, and manage the relationship with vigilance.
Market cuddle therapy as an emerging wellness practice by educating the public, clarifying what it is and isn’t, and patiently addressing ongoing misunderstandings.
Explore four key challenges for massage therapists entering cuddle therapy, provide a worksheet to brainstorm solutions, and highlight exciting opportunities and next steps for practice.
Cuddle therapy presents an option that is easier on the body, with no tendonitis, carpal tunnel, or arthritis.
Discover how less training can lead to a comparable pay rate, supported by a robust certification program and fewer hours to certify than massage therapy licensure.
Cuddle training enhances massage skills by improving boundary discussions with clients and refining table side manner.
Explore opportunity #4: an enriching career experience in cuddle therapy, with candid conversations about clients’ emotional life and the skills to hold what’s going on, plus safe-practice guardrails.
Define platonic cuddle sessions as non erotic, non romantic, and non sexual, emphasize safety and consent practices, and advise clear marketing of these elements to clients.
Explore consent practices in cuddle therapy, from clothing and directions of touch to two practical consent methods. Learn tools to maintain a professional, not confusing relationship with clients.
Define how to stay clothed throughout cuddle sessions by wearing casual, comfortable attire, avoid sexualized requests, and caress over clothing to maintain platonic, non-sexual, non-erotic touch.
Explore the direction of touch in cuddle therapy, choosing who caresses whom, with options for giver-led cuddling and client-caressed sessions, progressively building comfort and trust.
Explore ask and wait and blanket yes consent methods for cuddle therapy, where clients verbally request touch and clinicians pause to decide, preserving boundaries and the option to change minds.
Practice asking for consent and waiting for a clear yes, then demonstrate cuddle positions from an arm around to spooning and wrapping a leg around you, while respecting boundaries.
Explore the blanket yes method for boundary setting in cuddle therapy, teaching clients to assert boundaries, speak up about discomfort, and adjust touch as needed.
Discover practical tips to keep client relationships professional. Compare familiar massage therapy practices with the added nuance and depth that cuddle therapy can bring.
Master time management in cuddle therapy by starting and ending sessions on time, defining extension policies, processing payments between sessions, and sequencing each session with a beginning, middle, and end.
Keep client communications professional by limiting technology use to logistics and scheduling, avoiding friendship or socializing outside sessions, and maintaining a clear, structured beginning, middle, and end within the sessions.
Learn to discuss the client-practitioner relationship and maintain professional boundaries in cuddle therapy. Use consent methods like ask-and-wait and blanket consent to align expectations.
Explore three cuddle positions—companion, Baby Bear, and the lap of luxury—while mastering emotional labor, self-care, and trauma-informed practice, plus resources to work with diverse, marginalized groups.
Offer the companion cuddle position by sitting side by side, inviting hand holding and closer contact with arms and legs touching to ease transitions into deeper cuddling.
Master the baby bear cuddle position to provide nurturing through close body contact, back-to-front hugging, guided hand placement, and breathing together.
Explore the lap of luxury cuddle position for close contact and comfort, including head on the lap as a pillow, knee pressure, hair play, and a pillow between the knee.
Practice three cuddle positions, including baby bear and lap of luxury, to build familiarity with a safe partner or cuddle buddy. Follow a guided exercise to reinforce comfort and technique.
Explore emotional labor through listening and kindness, recognizing you are drawn to this work by your natural empathy. Remember you don't have to fix problems; the best gift is listening.
Set boundaries and pace in cuddle therapy by learning how many hours you can work daily without strain and where your emotional labor limits lie, for a sustainable practice.
Learn practical rituals and techniques to clear energy after each client and prepare for the next, using actions like shaking or dancing to manage emotional labor and maintain self-care.
Practice trauma-informed care by not assuming clients want to be touched, and slow your approach to respect consent and readiness. Some people prefer space, time, and care over a hug.
Explain how to gather client motivations during intake for cuddle therapy, ensuring clients share why they seek sessions through forms or conversations, including video chats.
Be impeccable in trauma-informed care by keeping promises, communicating consistently from intake through consent practices, and being transparent about mistakes to build trust with clients.
Continue education in trauma-informed practice as part of this work. Regularly seek articles, books, and resources to build your capacity as a trauma-informed professional.
Explore trauma-informed resources from the wisdom of trauma site and practice simple nervous system settling exercises from my grandmother's hands videos to discover tools for your practice.
Explore inclusivity by studying groups outside your own experiences and understanding their life challenges. Acknowledge blind spots, embrace kindness, and commit to trauma-informed continuing education with two presented resources.
Explore My Grandmother's Hands by Rasma Menachem through a compassionate lens that links systemic racism to trauma, offering foundational insight into how trauma informs race and healing.
Explore the 21 day racial equity habit building challenge by Dr. Eddie Moore Jr., featuring daily media items like podcasts, articles, short films, and feature-length films.
Review the materials for this section and reflect on cuddle positions, emotional labour, and trauma-informed practice. Learn about educating ourselves on marginalized group challenges and the logistics of moving forward.
Design your cuddle space to feel peaceful, friendly, and comfortable by moving away from clinical cues and choosing three guiding words through a practical exercise.
Design your cuddle space to evoke a sensory experience with textures on the skin, soothing sounds, and visuals, plus options like a trickling fountain, aromatherapy, and colored lights.
Design your cuddle space by prioritizing essentials and nice-to-haves, using a floor plan or checklist exercise to begin. Focus on how clients feel entering space, then transition to money considerations.
Learn pricing in cuddle therapy through market research, valuing your work, and applying pricing strategies to set a local precedent as a pioneer.
Value emotional labor in cuddle therapy by recognizing the craft behind cuddling and applying market research to set a pricing strategy that reflects expertise, skills, and experience.
Explore safety tips for professional cuddlers with an eight-step protocol and a ready-made agreement form, plus discounts on the self-guided course covering six phases of a cuddle session and certification.
Do people feel comforted by your presence and love your hugs? Cuddle therapy may be a perfect way for you to earn money while helping to make the world a kinder place. This course was created for massage therapists interested in cuddle therapy and will also be useful for Reiki practitioners, coaches and other caring people who feel drawn to cuddling professionally. This course includes the challenges and opportunities in pursuing cuddle therapy, guard rails for a safe practice, the work of cuddle therapy, some logistics and a pathway for continuing education.
You’ll learn cuddle positions such as Companion, Baby Bear and Lap of Luxury. You’ll also get details about two consent techniques: The Ask and Wait Method and the Blanket Yes Method. You’ll learn tools for being a trauma informed professional and tips for keeping your relationships with your clients professional.
If you’ve ever thought to yourself…
“I’m an empath. I really want to use my gifts to make a difference in people’s lives.”
“I know that human touch has such power. The world needs more kindness and compassion – the pandemic has made that need even more urgent.”
“I know people might not understand what I’m even doing, but I feel called to do this. I want to be a cuddle therapist!”
…then this work may be for you.