
Fear is most people's biggest obstacle. It is vicious, for it can nests itself outside of your awareness.
As long as you will be consciously or subconsciously afraid of falling, your brain will hijack your attempts at doing without the wall all the good stuff you have diligently being learning on the wall.
The problem has to be considered through two angles:
1) We have to develop a safety net - a body pattern that reliably will take us out of harm's way anytime our handstand goes wrong. That's bailing for you.
2) We have to learn to become more comfortable being upside down, and start noticing whenever our brain is hijacking our work, which signals that, despite you not feeling it, some part of you is still afraid. This is very different from step 1.
As we have seen, it is of the essence that we know when we start to be afraid (how badly we have to be falling forward to be afraid) so that we can soothe our inner wild horse.
Without that, you will without even realising sabotage your handstands, even if you already know how to bail - this is what happens for many improvers who just seem to be bailing too soon...
This is the common (questionable?) comfort zone representation we see a bit too much on social media:
There is value in us using it because FEAR actually is a component of our practice.
Now, there are 50 shades of red. Being slightly uncomfortable isn't the same as being afraid for your life.
It is being recognising the in-between Discomfort Zone, and its limits, that we will make good progress.
At first, this orange zone will feel very small. Your body will go very quickly from "this is fine" to "take me out of here!".
So what really matters is for you to start listening to your body's cues so that you know the moment you start tip toeing in the red zone and stop moving! Only at that price will you be able to gradually summon the parasympathetic system and increase the surface of the orange zone.
PS: yes, with time, Handstands will be all green. Until you start working on canes, that is ;)
While rolling forward isn't always a great idea on a hard surface (and you may subconsciously be well aware of that, despite a good forward roll), and bridging not the best option for most people... cartwheeling out of a handstand too overshot has all the benefits and no con. It is easy to learn, soft the joints, easier to control, and can be performed on any surface.
The steps to follow are simple but may take time to embody them:
notice which side you swing your leg from.
go chest to the wall.
move the hand from the side isolated in 1) to the side, so that its fingers are perpendicular to the other hand.
take off foot of the same side.
land that foot behind the hand that moved.
After a few reps, we need to feel more and more that safety isn't found when both feet are on the floor - it is found the moment the first hand has placed itself back on the floor.
Bailing tend to be, and to stay, a complete blackout at first. We want to work towards a moment where we can feel and harness ever single step in it.
Learning to tame our wild horse takes two things:
proving to ourselves that no matter what happens, we will fall back on our feet
getting more and more comfortable with the idea and sensation of falling forward
Before we dive into the bailing patterns, we shall explore, safely, mindfully, the zones and learn to recognise the signals our body is sending us...
Now, because you stayed within the orange zone, we have a chance at calming ourselves down. For that, we want to prompt back inside us some sense of agency and calm, using deep breaths.
Once the position becomes comfortable, you can make things slightly harder by closing the eyes, or learn to not give that much importance to the scared voice screaming for survival by focusing on something else.
This is not a good idea if you are processing some trauma. Please seek the help of a professional if unsure
The whole point of handstands is to be able to perform them in the middle of the room.
And on that topic, fear is the elephant in the room!
Fear is most people's biggest obstacle. It is vicious, for it can nests itself outside of your awareness.
As long as you will be consciously or subconsciously afraid of falling, your brain will hijack your attempts at doing without the wall all the good technique you have diligently learnt on the wall.
The problem has to be considered through two angles:
1) We have to develop a safety net - a body pattern that reliably will take us out of harm's way anytime our handstand goes wrong. That's bailing for you.
2) We have to learn to become more comfortable being upside down, and start noticing whenever our brain is hijacking our work, which signals that, despite you not feeling it, some part of you is still afraid
- Work with your body, not against it
- Learn to recognise the signals from your nervous system
- 15 lessons in videos, audio and written guides to conquer fear
- Tools and techniques to finally divorce the wall
What You'll Learn
Module 1: Handstand Foundations
Understand the foundational techniques that will allow you to hold a 15 second handstand as an adult beginner!
Module 2: How to use the wall properly
The wall is a double edged sword: it can be your best friend and your worst enemy. Learn how to practice with it to get rid of it.
Module 3: Separating from the Wall
Specific drills to train balance., confidence and spatial awareness.
Module 4: Conquering the Fear as an adult
Practical tools to reduce and stop your anxiety, embrace falling, and develop a growth mindset.
Module 5: Roadmap to your First 15-Second Handstand
Refine your technique and troubleshoot common errors!