
Explore the four social styles—analytical, driver, expressive, amiable—and learn to identify your own and others’ learning and communication styles, plus the five languages of love, appreciation, respect, thanks, and apologies.
Identify your and others' five love languages for appreciation and respect, learn the four social styles, and use style stepping to tailor workplace communication.
Form high-performing teams by pairing opposite personality styles—analytical, driver, amiable, expressive—aligning strengths, addressing weaknesses, and tailoring language to motivate and guide collaboration.
Managers learn to use the five languages of love to express appreciation, respect, apologies, and thanks at work, and to style stepping with benefit language across styles.
Learn to train your entire team in style stepping, motivate adoption, and use practical tools to monitor progress and apply versatile communication at work and home.
Learn how to read body language and visual cues, and deliberately use steeple gestures to punctuate messages and guide interpretation in managerial communication.
Identify and interpret visual cues, tells, and body language to gauge engagement and understanding, and learn deliberate signaling, active listening, and safe touch tactics to build better teams.
Discover your professional power tone to project credibility and professionalism through nonverbal communication, tone, and visuals, shaping first impressions within about 30 seconds using targeted prompts.
Project a professional image by tailoring dress and props to the position you want, using visual cues and purposeful nonverbal signals to belong and advance.
Use the piggyback verbal strategy to ensure your voice is heard in meetings by crediting the idea's author and being the last to speak, reinforcing contribution.
Project the image of an active listener by applying the six-step Saphan technique, open posture, and purposeful eye contact, and use recognition and feedback for memory associations.
Explore the Enneagram's nine compulsions driving difficult behavior, and assess your number. Learn to address aggressive, passive, assertive, and passive-aggressive patterns to improve workplace communication.
Learn to practice assertive communication that honors yourself and others, avoiding passive, aggressive, and passive-aggressive styles while using cost-benefit analysis and the Enneagram social style system.
Learn to address unwanted workplace behavior using freestyle scripting, with a clear lead-in line and a five-part IOU script that states actions, impact, desired change, consequences, and benefits.
Plan lead-in and closing lines for difficult conversations by keeping them short, using i-language, and naming the person; use closed-ended questions like 'Can I count on you' to secure agreement.
Master duct tape tactics for challenging conversations with freestyle scripting, spotlight questions, and redirect with assumptions, plus lead-in and closing lines.
Identify and avoid the three common mistakes with difficult people, apply goat hiding, and use empathy and ICR to address behavior for calmer, balanced left-right brain communication.
Master practical tactics to stop gossip and backstabbing using the ICR method, the AP IOUs script, and assertive closing lines, plus left- and right-brain language to defuse emotion.
This course covers the basics of using Style-Stepping to avoid conflict, build powerful teams, and inspire others with the right benefit language. The customer learns how to shift his or her language to meet that of the person with whom she or he is communicating, facilitating a deeper, speedier connection, leading to a more profound understanding and synergy among all team members, increasing production and decreasing time spent on conflict resolution.
You’ll learn how to:
More effectively choose the right people for the job or team based on their natural strengths and weaknesses, and pair the right people with one another to form the most effective team possible.
Apologize, say thank you,and show respect in other peoples’ language rather than your own language, which helps stimulate more right-brain activity, and ensure others hear and understand some of the most important messages you will ever send.
Motivate and Inspire people by speaking the right benefit language they will both understand and respond to, while teaching people in their preferred learning style—increasing the likelihood they will both understand and follow instructions.
This course is designed for:
- Mid-Management Training
- Comprehensive Executive Training
Dan O'Connor has been delivering tactical communication programs to businesses, governmental entities and individuals for over 15 years. The results from Dan's online communication training program and YouTube training videos are measurable in the responses of students and subscribers that he has helped create a personal compass for both personal and professional growth. One of the key aspects of his success is the emphasis on practical, day-to-day communication solutions for the stressful situations with which we all live.