
Explore the types of talk—heart talk, mind talk, outer talk, and body talk—and learn how nonverbal cues, word choice, and accountability shape understanding and relationships.
Identify surface level and deep level connections, and learn to communicate with partners with the same respect you offer co-workers, fostering healthy, lasting relationships.
Learn to improve communication with your partner by taking turns speaking and listening, reflecting back with care, and ensuring both sides feel heard and understood.
Explore a morning dispute over dividing childcare tasks, as partners negotiate responsibilities and attitudes while getting the kids ready for school.
Practice care-based dialogue with your partner by reflecting back feelings and applying the three c's of caring: value, happiness, and commitment, then express all feelings before addressing resolution.
Partners practice collaborative resolution setting by listing feasible resolutions, narrowing options, and choosing mutually satisfying, specific, and realistic agreements with reminders to prevent reoccurrence.
Students, this video has some problems, especially in the beginning. Please be patient, it gets better as it goes. Although it has issues, we decided to use it so that you could hear the couple discuss the issue (so you could know what the issue is) using TLC-Talking and Listening with Care.
Brainstorm a practical resolution for the couple, outlining actions such as adjusting how often they connect and shopping for warm, sexy pajamas together, all within a 30-day plan.
Offer tender loving care and listening to help your partner talk through a problem, fostering empathy, understanding, and feeling heard.
This Video is Chapter 11 of Secrets to love, Directed by Tracie Donohue. https://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Love/dp/B003J7HO7S
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This course is for those who want to learn how to communicate and resolve conflict more effectively with their partner. It outlines some fundamentals of effective communication, four components of our TLC-Talking and Listening With Care program, and then takes you through our TLC-Three Step Program by showing videos of couples arguing before using TLC and then showing them resolving using our TLC three-step program.
Whether you are single, in a relationship, or married, it is important to be able to communicate and resolve conflict effectively. The modules include the following outlined below.
1. Communication Fundamentals, which include the power of words, types of talk, ineffective vs. effective communication, communication and connection, processing styles, gender differences in communication, and how we conflict and potential outcomes.
2. TLC-Talking and Listening with Care— outlines four components of talking and listening with care and more.
3. TLC Three-step program—using couples as examples, this module includes several sections that provide a step-by-step guide for talking through an issue and resolving conflict.
4. Helping Your Partner Talk through a Problem—Instructs you how to listen to your partner as they try to talk through an issue.
5. Gender Differences in Coping with Stress—This section provides a video clip from an Interview with Dr. John Gray, discussing how the genders cope with stress.
TLC—Talking and Listening with Care—the book for this course includes exercises at the end to help singles and couples explore their communication styles and to increase their communication competencies and skills.