
Gain leadership and people skills from Dr. Bob's five advantages: decades of psychology experience, unique model-based courses, and a focus on skill building, knowledge, self-awareness, and positive communication.
Embrace an individuality-first leadership approach that centers you in the learning process and avoids one-size-fits-all methods. Build collaboration and maximize your value to create impactful outcomes in business and life.
Lead with responsibility to achieve productive results and explore a seven-course series on organizational development, problem solving, influence, conflict resolution, decision making, creating loyal customers, and teams.
Master a six-element framework for impactful communication that blends speaking, listening, and writing, teaches word choice and editing, and guides groups to communicate clearly for leadership.
Miss Pugh defines communication as a message from someone to someone through a medium for a purpose, plus an X factor. This lecture explains each element to boost your impact.
Define the message as a packet of information you are responsible for disseminating. Craft it with the right amount of information and the right words to achieve your intended impact.
Decide who you are when communicating by defining your role and image. Provide clear credentials to unfamiliar audiences and balance exaggeration with credibility to gain trust.
Identify your audience before messaging, assess their current understanding, and tailor messages to meet their needs, recognizing that one size fits all rarely works, to maximize impact.
Choose the right medium to maximize message impact, tailoring delivery to the audience and context, and apply McLuhan’s idea that the medium shapes the message.
Explore how leadership communication should affect behavior, aiming for behavior change or retention, with examples of informing, political messages, and the concept of communication for impact.
Engage with feedback to confirm your message achieves impact by refining medium, packaging, and audience selection. Build your communication skills over time by identifying strengths and weaknesses.
Learn four basic rules of communicating for impact, drawn from a speaker’s career and feedback, and integrating Miss Pugh’s ideas to boost leadership communication.
Lead with the primary rule of communication: do no harm by speaking only when you have something additive to say, and apply Miss Pugh's elements.
Follow the secondary basic rule: prioritize words the listener understands, not what you like. Use short words, vary sentence length, and seek feedback to ensure the audience owns the message.
Master present communication by being in the moment and attentive to the audience, creating real connection and care. Be there when giving and receiving feedback to strengthen impact.
Learn to say what is and not what isn’t to improve clarity by describing observable details, not abstractions, as shown through examples of diagnosing symptoms and furnace behavior.
Develop the art of listening to become an excellent listener and a better communicator by listening intently, understanding others, and embracing the two ears and one mouth idea for impact.
Learn how to cultivate positive casual conversations by listening, avoiding interruptions, and letting others tell their stories, so both participants feel good about the exchange.
This lecture explains why we listen, from learning and relationship building to emergency guidance, and teaches active listening and appreciative inquiry, open-ended questions, and seeking feedback.
Active listening means ensuring the speaker knows you are listening through engaged body language, attention, and timely questions. Maintain presence, ask appropriate questions, and confirm understanding to foster clear communication.
Apply appreciative inquiry and D model: discovery, dream, design, deploy, to build mutual understanding and examine what went well, what could be better, and what we are willing to do.
Develop leadership skills by learning to resolve conflicts and deliver bad news with empathy and clarity, even when outcomes can't be fixed.
Slow down to clarify the issue, define a mutual outcome, and identify hurdles. Then brainstorm pros and cons to forge a mutual solution, harnessing the speed of thought.
Apply a three-step method for presenting bad news: set it up, say it, then stay quiet and listen to the recipient's needs with empathy.
Explore the shared accountability of leaders and managers, embrace a servant-to-employees philosophy that prioritizes employee welfare, and acknowledge the human cost of employment while pursuing organizational success.
Lead with sincere, specific appreciation for individuals' efforts, share relevant information about company changes, and invite feedback to inform better decisions.
Embrace the power of we to lead with inclusion, recognize unconscious bias, and communicate togetherness from the top down for stronger organizational success.
Ask for help when you're at the top to avoid loneliness, admit what you don't know, and surround yourself with smarter people who offer alternative opinions to improve decisions.
Communicate the truth as a leader while shaping what you share to inspire confidence, acknowledge obstacles, highlight strengths, and project optimism about turning challenges into success.
Discuss leadership mistakes, consequences, and future threats, and communicate how failures affect people and what the organization learns and changes through open and effective communication.
Hold as few meetings as necessary, and ensure sessions last only as long as needed. Apply lessons from Patrick Lencioni's death by meetings to improve structure and decision making.
Transform performance reviews into conversations that enhance performance using appreciative inquiry's steps: what you did well, what could be improved, what needs to happen, and what you're willing to do.
Explore coaching and mentoring in the workplace, using open-ended questions and appreciative inquiry to unlock employee potential through informal guidance.
Respond with sympathy for simple errors, coach to prevent carelessness, and train for inept skills; apply progressive discipline or firing for willful violations, aligned with Toyota's system.
Identify underperformance, address team impact, and build a mutual, measurable behavioral contract with a support plan to salvage performance or decide when to part ways.
Learn to tell stories with impact by shaping heartfelt narratives that illuminate purpose in the workplace, from daily tasks to building a cathedral together.
See journalism as a key information tool for leadership communication, mastering the five w's and h: who, what, where, when, why, and how, and lead-first delivery.
Craft a hook that entices readers by revealing enough information to spark curiosity and emotion, using headlines, book titles, and ads, while applying the five W's and H.
Explore how conflict engages audiences and strengthens messages using hooks, Miss Pugh's elements of communication, and the five W's and H.
Learn how to end messages with a clear resolution and a call to action, crafting a happy ending with emotion that motivates action and demonstrates impact.
Practice self-editing to sharpen leadership communication, edit your writing twenty to thirty times to polish your manuscript, and seek outside eyes to ensure the reader understands your message.
Learn to begin writing with the truest sentence you know, as Hemingway advised, then edit to express ideas clearly and effectively.
Learn editing to improve clarity by deciding what to say, how to say it, and ruthlessly trimming words to land your message with the receiver.
Improve leadership communication by showing rather than telling, using imagery and sensory detail to make business writing clearer, more engaging, and impactful.
Discover how feedback drives communication for impact by assessing when you communicate well and gathering audience understanding, and learn the value of giving and receiving feedback.
Feedback shows how to improve communication, practice, and learning across scenarios like babysitting, basketball, and computer illustration, by specifying what kind of feedback you want and its impact.
Doctor Bob's glorious feedback system guides a giver and receiver through a permission-based, must-listen interaction that highlights behavior, results, and growth without crossing the dotted red line of death.
Become someone who listens better, speaks with compassion and authority, and writes what people read, understand and act on.
WHAT STUDENTS ARE SAYING (AI): The reviews highlight a strong appreciation for the content related to communication skills, particularly in the areas of word choice and delivering bad news effectively. Learners express eagerness to expand their understanding by emphasizing the importance of knowing what to say and when to say it.
THIS COURSE: Leadership: Communication, a Core Skill for Effective Impact
By the end of this course:
You will express your thoughts and feelings so others can hear, understand, respect and respond.
Communication
Congratulations. Even thinking about improving your communications skills puts you ahead of others. Most people don’t communicate nearly as well as they think, and it shows. If you want to express your feelings and ideas, speak and write with more impact, and listen well, you have come to the right place.
Poor communication wastes time, causes confusion and frustration, leads to bad decisions and hurt feelings, costs money, and is usually boring. On the plus side, good communication is engaging, informative, actionable, interesting, quick, and of course, clear and simple.
This is a skill-building course to enable everyone in an organization, a business, family, anyone, anywhere, to communicate expertly. This means being able to organize ideas, express them accurately and understandably, and be able to elicit feedback so the communication loop is closed. From appreciative inquiry to giving bad news, all the important challenges of effective communicating are covered. You will be able to handle just about any situation and have a good chance at handling every situation.
What makes this course different? As an expert in human behavior, I help business leaders and employees interact with each other and with customers in the most productive ways, mostly using tools I have created over the past 50 years. The course uses as a core concept a communication model I learned sixty years ago. It has proven its value ever since. I also created many of the tools you will learn, use them daily, and taught these tools in communication workshops. The material in this course has created a well-proven path to excellence. Come join me.
Both concepts and skills are taught. In addition, a section will teach the basics of good editing by working on a practical exercise. Explore how to express ideas and feelings. Connect with others in the most delightful ways.
Rock Solid Business Soft Skills
My set of LEADERSHIP SKILLS courses is ideal if you want to significantly improve your soft skills as a leader, manager or employee. Each course presents a specific topic; you’ll dive deeply into the content and emerge with newly acquired ideas and rock-solid soft skills. Many of the ideas and skills are unique to this set of courses.
Business is a balancing act of controlling and enabling others. As a leader/manager, you must be in charge, but also encourage the best from every worker. As you know, this isn’t easy. Make a mistake or two and everyone suffers. Rock solid skills have clear steps, easily followed and measured. And if you aspire to leadership, these skills will propel you upward.
My courses follow that old saying, "if you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, if you teach him to fish, you feed him for a lifetime." I teach both skills and concepts. If you want both training and an education, this is the place, tools and ideas. Each course provides ideas to explore and skills to try out. You choose the topic and in about three hours or less, you’ll acquire rock solid soft skills enabling you to support and inspire your employees. Double asterisks (**) around a section or lecture denotes core material.
This series of Leadership Skills courses is ideal for these topics: Entrepreneurship, Communication Skills, Management Skills, Business Fundamentals, Leadership Skills, Manager Training, Conflict Management, and Influence.