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Challenges with Influencing & Parenting
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Challenges with Influencing & Parenting

Come learn some powerful and simple tools to parent or lead in a way that is really doable, works, and make you happy.
Created byEric Pabst
Last updated 12/2025
English

What you'll learn

  • How to increase your influence without requiring authority.
  • How to effectively address bad behavior using compassion and curiosity.
  • What obstacles keep you from healthy parenting and influencing and how to remove them.
  • The underlying cause for each kind of bad behavior.
  • Effective approaches for a myriad of parenting and leadership challenges.
  • Ways to radically increase your ability to empathize.
  • The value of providing emotional safety to them.
  • 5 powerful questions that help remove fears, insecurities, frustrations, and unhealthy expectations.
  • How to kill a fear in minutes.
  • How to help them progress in a way that they'll welcome.
  • How to find win-win solutions for you and them.
  • How to reduce the need for so many rules.

Course content

1 section25 lectures1h 17m total length
  • Introduction3:28
  • Unhealthy vs. Healthy Expectations3:20
  • Obstacles to Living Our Best1:00
  • Realms of Power2:14

    Explore the realms of power, including the gods' or universes' realm, others' decisions, and your own, and learn to influence without entering others' realm, fostering peaceful, empowered, and influential boundaries.

  • Trigger Buster Intro2:33
  • Trigger Buster 1 & 21:25
  • Trigger Buster 31:53
  • Trigger Buster 41:18
  • Trigger Buster 5A2:00

    Explore how to reframe negative thoughts by turning 'they don't respect me' into 'I don't respect me,' and address self-care, self-sabotage, and parenting courage.

  • Trigger Buster 5B1:47
  • Trigger Buster 5C2:48

    Turn past moments into a positive truth by focusing on times they respected me, and let the subconscious mind surface memories that reinforce respect.

  • Trigger Buster 5D1:17
  • Trigger Buster Outro1:54
  • Behavior Red Flags1:31
  • Ways to Listen Better6:51
  • Addressing Problematic Behavior9:10

    Navigate problematic behavior by assessing your capacity to respond, describing your emotions, asking them to handle the situation, recognizing underlying suffering, and pursuing mutual understanding to reach a win-win solution.

  • Prioritized Strategies to Maximize Influence4:45
  • Love Thy Neighbor as Thyself2:58
  • Nourish Core Relationship4:00

    Nourish the core relationship by comforting and listening, using hugs and presence to help others feel understood; connect through curiosity, stories, and shared tasks.

  • Extending Trust0:47
  • How to Help Someone Grow7:01
  • Measuring Influence0:43
  • When You Disagree with a Rule or Decision3:04
  • Kill Fears (by Syra)5:58
  • Conclusion4:00

Requirements

  • No prior experience or learning needed.
  • Willingness to try a revolutionary approach.

Description

Are you at the end of your wits?
Does nothing seem to work with your kids or those you are trying to influence?
Are you tired of all the arguing, disobedience, or disrespect?
Do you sometimes not like how you show up as a parent or leader?

It can be extremely difficult as a parent.
We love our kids. We really do.
But sometimes we don't like them.
From the "terrible two's" to "teenage brain damage" it is quite a ride.   
It's not that different as a leader.

I've been there.
As a father of 7 children,
through pain, sweat, and tears,
and lots of mistakes and regrets...
I've found some approaches that are actually doable
and REALLY work.

I'm not going to tell you how you should be
and expect you to magically be that way.

I'm not going to give you vague steps
that are frustrating and confusing

I want to empower you with principles and tools
that will open you mind to a whole new way to parent or lead.

The tools I teach meet you where you are,
with simple steps that anyone can do who is willing.
They allow you to be fully genuine,
without judging your emotions,
while helping your kids or others to feel emotionally safe and ready to listen to you.

These tools will help you to convert your negative thoughts into gems of truth.

They don't change you overnight,
but they work faster than you thought possible.

Now my life is wonderful!!!

After applying these principles and tools,
I feel amazing as a parent.
Feeling frustrated is rare,
my teenage kids open up and connect with me,
some of my kids are even learning the principles for themselves,
and one recently told me I was a great father, unprompted!
That feels so good.

Let me show you how.

I've gathered up what I've done and packaged it into
a training that will enable you to do the same.

Who this course is for:

  • For people who struggle with parenting or influencing others.