
Explore the self-integration model (CIM) with its 14 parts and six-step healing. Learn to filter external events using inner parts to heal and build empowered, balanced relationships.
Explore the three unhealthy parent filter states—critical, indulgent neglectful, and catastrophizing—including their functions, examples, and impact on feelings, and learn how to spot them in self-talk and parenting.
Explore the three healthy parent filter states—the protector, the nurturer, and the guide—and learn how they counter inner critics, provide reassurance, and set boundaries.
This lecture explains the adult and child states, distinguishing healthy and unhealthy adults and how emotion is handled, introducing the handshake concept and a homework exercise classifying six parenting states.
Explore your family of origin, uncover how adaptations from childhood shape adult behavior, and unpack your knapsack to keep what serves you while shedding what doesn't.
Identify how wounds and triggers from your family of origin drive your reactivity by mapping feeling, adaptation, and underlying wound. Cultivate curiosity to uncover patterns and manage reactions toward healing.
Explore how external events interact with internal filters to shape distress, learn to measure impact on a 0–10 scale, and begin the six-step healing process to choose healthier filters.
Master the six step healing method to identify feelings and pull the alarm. Activate the four healing agents—protective, nurturing, guiding, and adult—to deactivate reactivity.
Are you ready to move beyond stress, self-doubt, and negativity into a life of confidence, happiness, and purpose? This course will guide you through the Self-Integration Model (SIM), a clear and practical 6-step personal development process designed to help you heal, grow, and strengthen your relationships.
The SIM approach is easy to understand and apply. When life feels overwhelming or emotionally triggering, these steps will give you a roadmap to reduce reactivity, regain balance, and shift from old patterns into healthier ways of thinking and behaving.
With examples, reflections, and guided exercises, you’ll learn how to:
Improve self-awareness and understand your behaviour through psychology-based methods
Build stronger, healthier relationships with family, friends, and colleagues
Apply personal development strategies used by life coaches to support growth and resilience
Recognize emotional triggers and de-activate yourself when dysregulated
Use practical tools for handling negative emotions and creating positive change
By the end of this course, you’ll have skills and strategies that support long-term personality development, emotional resilience, and mental well-being. You’ll also gain a deeper understanding of yourself and others, insight that not only transforms your personal life but also enhances how you connect with people around you.
Why learn with Donna Jacobs?
Donna has guided students and workshop participants through this process with powerful results. Past learners described her training as “life-changing, insightful, and empowering.” In her workshops:
96% rated the course extremely informative
100% rated Donna as very well prepared
98% rated the overall course as excellent to very good
This isn’t just another self-help program, it’s a practical framework that gives you tools you can return to whenever you feel challenged. Whether you’re starting your journey in personal growth or deepening your path in psychology and self-awareness, this course will meet you where you are and take you further.
Take the first step today. Enroll now and begin your 6-step journey to becoming your best self.