10 Steps to an AwesomeSauce You! (Step 5)

The old adage we cannot love anyone until we love ourselves is quite true.
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Probe the notion of 'undefended love'
Learn about the chemicals released in the brain when experiencing love
Understand the definition of miracles in relation to love


  • Students are highly encouraged to watch the preceeding modules


This section is called Axiom of Love and it is the fifth of ten sections. The old adage we cannot love anyone until we love ourselves is quite true. That adage is equivalent to the aircraft rules prior to take off - Flight attendants always remind parents that if the airplane cabin loses pressure, you should apply your oxygen mask first, and then your child's. This is because a parent without oxygen is likely to pass out before getting the child's mask in place. For the Science track, we look at the chemicals released in the brain and their effects. How more oxytocin in your life is vital to your happiness. In the Psychology track, we probe the notion of 'undefended love' and how guilt and innocence play a huge role in our day to day behaviour. And in the Spirituality track, we embrace Course In Miracles, a completely different angle to look at love.

Who this course is for:

  • Anyone interested in becoming their Optimal Self
  • Anyone moving toward becomeing a Master Self-Regulator


Leadership| Diversity & Inclusion | Thought Leader | Speaker
Rajkumari Neogy
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Rajkumari Neogy, MA works with individuals and organizations to make transformative and sustainable shifts. She is fascinated by workplace culture, especially in tech. Over the last 20 years, she has worked with organizations worldwide, including Cisco Systems, Facebook, Sony, Adobe, JVC and Amazon. In 2013 she founded iRestart, which provides consulting in the areas of leadership, organizational development, and diversity & inclusion. She is the author of The WIT Factor: Shifting the Workplace Paradigm by Becoming Your Optimal Self.

As a Certified Master Trainer and Neuro-Linguistic Programmer holding a Master's Degree in Transformative Leadership Development from the California Institute of Integral Studies, Rajkumari sits quite comfortably at the intersection of neuroscience, technology and culture. Possessing a rare blend of techno-babble and touchy-feely, she brings her keen insight and systems-thinking perspective to provide holistic and integrative solutions when addressing complex problems. She believes that the qualities of passionate self-reflection and dedicated curiosity (two sides of the same coin) define true leadership.

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