Men's Guide to Becoming a Legend in the Bedroom

Bedroom Skills for Guys... This is the stuff most women wish guys knew about sex. Learn how to be a skilled lover.
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  • Lectures 64
  • Length 1 hour
  • Skill Level Beginner Level
  • Languages English
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Published 4/2015 English

Course Description

This course is for guys who genuinely want to know what a woman wants in the bedroom.

Let's face it, it is highly unlikely your dad sat you down at age 18 to teach you the finer points of 'getting frisky' with a lady. The reason he did not do this is because most parents don't like to talk to their kids about sexuality. Parents like to think that you will learn enough at school, and that you will work the rest out when you get married…!

Another reason dad's don't talk to their sons about this stuff is that they have never really been sure about what they are doing either. They fumbled and stumbled their way through their sexual adventures since the very first time.

Sex is just one of those taboo subjects that is avoided at school too. Not all schools, but many of them are just worried about what they should or should not say, so they say very little!

If only you could take a semester in Sex Ed that actually taught you what you wanted to know.

In my line of work I talk to many women about their sexual experiences, I also have plenty of experience of my own. What I hear is an overwhelming number of sad stories about ladies disappointed with their lovers (young and old). So many guys who just never really learned what to do in the bedroom.

That all changes with this course. Let me show you how to be a great lover. If you feel that you have been missing out on the sex you want, become better at it… be more.

No nudity, just interesting, fun info.

What are the requirements?

  • No prerequisites here... come with an open mind and a passion for passion!

What am I going to get from this course?

  • Navigate your way around a female body like a pro. Identify the primary pleasure points for ultimate arousal. Use your mouth and tongue to bring your lady to the ultimate level of climax with a mind blowing orgasm.

Who is the target audience?

  • This Bedroom Legends course is for guys who may have been with a lady who has been too shy to tell you what they really want? Have you had a great night with a woman only to have her ignore you in the following days and weeks? Maybe you just didn't get her sweet spot. This course will give you the knowledge and skills to become a brilliant lover... the ladies will be calling you back after this!
  • This course is not for wannabe porn stars, its for real guys who just want to be better.

What you get with this course?

Not for you? No problem.
30 day money back guarantee.

Forever yours.
Lifetime access.

Learn on the go.
Desktop, iOS and Android.

Get rewarded.
Certificate of completion.


Section 1: Introduction to the course
Section 2: The Female

We are all Human, however the fundamental differences are due to our hormones and how they affect our mind and body


Not many ladies enjoy their menstruation time, as a considerate lover, you should understand what is happening and how she feels.

Section 3: Female Sexual Anatomy

The Vulva, often mis-named as the vagina, this is the external area around the vagina and clitoris.


Understanding Where the clitoris is and what is is there for.


The Vagina is simply the opening where the penis enters the female during penatrative sex and where babies come out during natural child birth.


The anus is the opening for solid waste elimination, however with increasing numbers of people making anal sex a part of their regular playtime, it is important to note these tips.

Wrap up
Section 4: Sensual Massage
Intro to massage

Not all oils are suitable for massaging.


Communication is the key to many things, including during massage.


Massage pressure and technique, practice different hand movements, ask the recipient for feedback. Use you whole hand as this feels better to the reciever.

Wash up
Section 5: Sexual Turn off's

The wrong attitude will crush your chances with a nice lady.


Bad breath and body odour are a huge turn off for most women.


An untidy room or apartment can indicate a lack of self care and possibly a lack of a future with a lady.

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Section 6: Sexual Turn on's

Just be yourself and be proud of who you are and how you conduct yourself and you will be more attractive. Good conversation is about finding common ground.


Love yourself before anyone else can love you, enjoy who you are and what you add to the world.


You dont find all comedians funny and not everyone finds you funny. Just be yourself and if you hit the humours sweet spot with a lady, you are half way there.


Take pride in how you come across to others. Dress appropriately for the occasion. brush you teeth, shower and use deoderant.


Champagne and strawberries... flowers, a romantic picnic


A man who smells nice wins brownie points even before he opens his mouth.

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Section 7: Foreplay

The important points about kissing


Female pluasure points


Where to use your hands during foreplay


If you doing things right so far, she will do it for you.

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Section 8: Ladies, Sexuality and Orgasms

Get your lady to climax first and she will be happy to work with you on your needs.


Yes Ladies are very capable of Multiple orgasms due to the nature of our anatomy and arousal curve.


Clitoral orgasms and G spot/vaginal orgasms.


Only 5% of women report having ever had this happen, but it is such a curiosity I wanted to include it.

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Section 9: Oral

What to do with your mouth during oral sex.


What to do with your tongue during oral sex


What you may like to try with your fingers during oral sex


How oral sex feel to the receiver... your female lover.


We are all unique and this means our reactions will differe greatly too.

Wrap Up
Section 10: Positions

Sexual Positions to get her going, the ones that stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.


Not all sexual positions are wonderful for both of you and some are good for neither!

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Section 11: Lubrication and Toys
Water based V's Silicon Lubes

The facinating history of the vibrator.


The difference between a vibrator and a dildo


Handcufs and feathers... or just use a few scarfs or stockings!


Nipples and clamps... interesting connection to the sexual and reproductive area.


Whips and Paddles, not everyone's cup of tea. There must be a safe word when exploring this arena.

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Section 12: Safe Sex

Using a condom the wrong way could render it useless


Condoms are a part of being a responsible, sexually active person.


You need condoms if you are not ready to be a parent and you do not want to catch a Sexually Transmitted Infection.


The Doctor has seen it all before, just go to the Doc when something is not right.

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Section 13: Course Wrap up
Wrap it up with a bow

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Instructor Biography

Darleen Proud M. HLTH SC. (Sexual Health), Sexuality Educator, Dating and Relationship Coach

My Name is Darleen Proud these days… for a while I was Darleen Rankin and I was born Darleen Irwin, in Sydney Australia. I grew up in a great family environment, there were no tragedies to speak of and my parents remain happily married to this day. The eldest of 3 kids, I was my parent's first chance to try out their skills. I think they did a pretty good job!

I could not wait to leave school, I finished year 10 and never went back. I have worn many hats in my 40 odd years of life and in work. While I was growing up, I always felt older than my birthdays indicated and my interest in Human Sexuality has been there for as long as I can remember…

I have two fantastic daughters and enjoy the challenge of parenthood, I married an amazing man a couple of years ago, and who shares my motto…. Life is an Adventure!

I have been involved in relationship building in a business sense for many years, and found those skills easily transfer to coaching and helping people with their sexuality. I love helping people see things from a different angle, to help them move forward instead of stagnating.

Having completed my Master of Health Science – Sexual Health at the University of Sydney, I write a blog and do programs and workshops for all kinds of people to become more informed about a range of sometimes difficult topics. The programs and workshops are fun and informative, working on many facets of life. Your sexuality is only a part of your life balance, but it is an important part, the info I share will help you feel better about yourself and your comfort with sexuality and relationships.

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