5 Steps to Positive Discipline for Peace at Home
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5 Steps to Positive Discipline for Peace at Home

Peace at Home Parenting Solutions
4.7 (6 ratings)
Course Ratings are calculated from individual students’ ratings and a variety of other signals, like age of rating and reliability, to ensure that they reflect course quality fairly and accurately.
22 students enrolled
Created by Ruth Freeman
Last updated 5/2018
English
English
Price: $24.99
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This course includes
  • 36 mins on-demand video
  • 1 article
  • 12 downloadable resources
  • 1 Practice Test
  • Full lifetime access
  • Access on mobile and TV
  • Assignments
  • Certificate of Completion
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What you'll learn
  • Students will be able to apply parenting strategies that increase child cooperation and confidence and reduce family stress.
Requirements
  • An open mind, willingness to reflect on your own behavior as a parent, readiness to make small changes in habits and the desire to have Peace in your Home!
Description

You have made a miracle - no, not just your kids but making the choice to carve time out from your busy life to focus mindfully on your children and your relationship with them. I'm deeply grateful to be joining with you in this process.

If you grew up in a family where you felt safe, soothed and truly seen, this will be a piece of cake. If you are like over 2/3 of adults in the US, your childhood had some challenges and those may make this process a bit more challenging. Take your time, get support and remember this is a process. We are looking for progress not perfection.

You want your kids to listen, maybe even the first time you ask. We are going to get you there but first a few basics. 

  1. Do you feel safe, soothed and truly seen today? Do you have connections among your family or friends that really support you?
  2. How well are you managing your stress? Even if you are positive with your kids, if your inner life is in emergency mode, your kids will sense that and reflect it. 

You will find attached to this class some tools to help you improve self care and well-being. You may want to start there for a couple of weeks before you begin taking action steps with your kids. And even if you don't, be kind to yourself in this process. 

Remember, progress, not perfection.

So let's get started. 

Who this course is for:
  • All parents and caregivers who seek more positive approaches to discipline and communication.
Course content
Expand all 8 lectures 36:21
+ WEEK ONE - Your Child Wants Your Attention
1 lecture 03:28

Whatever you give attention to, you will get more of.

In this section, you are going to learn how to set the stage for cooperation. Start by filling your child's "attention bank" with predictable, regular one-on-one time together. This is likely to reduce their bids for negative attention and you will likely see positive results in a very short time.

Preview 03:28
Your focus is spending daily/regular one-on- one time with your child. Keep in mind: 1. Put aside any agenda (try not to teach or guide your child) - this is just for fun 2. Do something you both enjoy 3. Avoid interruptions 4. No technology or screens 5. Look into your child's eyes and be positive
Schedule Regular Parent-Child Time
3 questions
+ WEEK TWO - Discipline Myths and the "Praise that Works"
1 lecture 08:09

If you were already playing one-on-one regularly you are ready to get going onto step two. I hope you found some fun activities to share with your child. Some of you may have already noticed a difference in behavior. 

Preview 08:09
This week think about your child's one or two most challenging behaviors and identify what are the opposites of those misbehaviors.
Recognize Myths and Use Effective Discipline
4 questions
+ WEEK THREE - Regular Routines and Family Rules
2 lectures 06:50
Regularity and Routines
04:06

Take a breath and reflect on your accomplishments. Celebrate. Tell family and friends about your progress. You've got this.

During this lecture, we will discuss Self-Control and Self-Regulation. Most parents say they want their kids to have self-control. What they mean is make good choices and think about outcomes of the their actions.

Family Rules
02:44
This week talk with your kids about what they think are your current family rules and take some time to brainstorm new ones that might make life easier for everyone. Think about the routines you are already using and which ones might help keep your family on track.
Reflect On and Create Family Rules and Routines
5 questions
+ WEEK FOUR - Family Meetings
1 lecture 05:40
Family Meetings
05:40
Consider creating Family Meetings to help things run more smoothly. This will involve talking with your partner, teaching your child(ren) some skills and getting started.
Implementing Family Meetings
3 questions
+ WEEK FIVE - Self-Regulation, Co-Regulation and Pulling it All Together
1 lecture 08:28

Learn how NOT to lose it and how to handle it when you or your kids do. 

Understanding Ups and Downs
08:28
This week you will focus on calming your body and brain as well as teaching that skill to your child(ren). As you begin to wrap up this course and reflect on all you have learned, noticing your stress levels and addressing them will help.
Work on Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation for Peace At Home
3 questions

Answer the following questions to the best of your ability. If you score a 70% or higher, you are eligible to receive a certificate of completion for the "Positive Discipline" class. Please email us at peaceathomeparenting@gmail.com if you are in need of this certificate.

Test Your Knowledge
15 questions
+ BONUS SECTION
2 lectures 03:49

Mothers and Fathers parent differently and this is why and why it's a good thing.

BONUS LECTURE: Fathers parent differently from mothers
03:04
Stay Connected to Peace at Home Parenting Solutions
00:45