39 Confirmatory Signs to Identify if She is Using You

"Identify the nature of your relationship before it becomes too late"
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Published 10/2015 English

Course Description

Almost every man faces this situation in his life, when he falls for a wrong woman. And with time the situation only gets worse. The woman keeps on using the man solely for her own personal benefits and man in-spite of clearly seeing all this keeps on hoping that someday the situation will get better and she will engage herself more in this so-called relationship. But alas, that day hardly comes. As usual at the end the woman moves on and all you are left with is anger and remorse that you wasted your precious time and money at someone who wasn't worthy enough for that.

This is where our course come, which consciously makes you aware of all those situation which otherwise would have gone unnoticed. This one hour course is designed to be less time consuming, so that you reap maximum benefit.

This useful course consists 14 Major Sign which can be widely detected in lots of women and can be seen without much effort. Being common, these signs are quite hard even for a woman to hide or alter. Another 25 Minor Sign are subtle in nature and takes some effort to notice. They might not be as prevalent as the majors one but surely will come in handy when you need to put her through the series of verification routine.

Together all these 39 Signs will give you a complete picture of any women who is in your life and will help you to tackle this serious problem. After all it's all up to you whether you still want her to be in your life or you wanna move on, in search of someone better.

Either way, whichever way the decision will be completely yours.

I wish you amazing time ahead.

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What are the requirements?

  • open mind
  • interest to learn from the content and willingness to apply it

What am I going to get from this course?

  • identify if someone is using them
  • find the right woman for them
  • prevent themselves from emotional melodrama
  • save their precious time and money

What is the target audience?

  • if you in a relationship with someone
  • if you are NOT sure that someone is using you
  • if you want to prevent yourself from emotional turmoil
  • if you love studying human behaviour

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Curriculum

Section 1: Introduction About The Course
03:02

“Never make someone a priority, when all you are to them is an option.”

02:41

While you're trying to change Ms. Wrong into Ms. Maybe, in the meanwhile, your real Ms. Right, may be getting swept up by someone who isn't wasting his time.

Section 2: 15 Major Signs Of Identification
05:40

MAJOR SIGN 01

"She has no problem spending money, as long as it's yours."

Identification:-

•She doesn't reciprocate. She takes, takes, takes, but never gives!

•She accepts little gifts from you without reciprocating the kindness.

•No.She's not cheap. It's just that you, she thinks are not important enough to spend money on.

•Every time you guys hang out you have to pay. She NEVER offers!

•Worst situation. She even asks (or expects) you to buy her things or pay her bills.

•Only time she is nice to you and calls you sweet names, is when she wants something from you.

•But as soon as she gets it, the beautiful smile and sweet words disappear.

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MAJOR SIGN 02

"She hangs out with you only if she wants some help from you."

Identification:-

•You're her Mr. Fix It -you solve everything for her like her homework, exams, problems, career advice.

• Do not do this. You are not her consultant.

•She always has something she needs you to do for her.

•Acts friendly whenever she needs something from you.

•She usually calls you all the sweet names, ' boo boo', hun, bla bla and flirts with you only when she needs a favor.

•She's extra nice when she needs your help.

•She often ask you favors e.g., move furniture, fix her car, use your truck, etc. but she goes missing when you want to spend time with her.

04:33

MAJOR SIGN 03

"She's with you only because you have got loads of network or you are a party animal."

Identification:-

•She is more interested in what you do for a living than in you yourself.

•She asks you for favors a lot.

•In parties, she seems more interested in others than you.

•You are doing pretty well in your field of work and you get to hang out with the rich and the famous. And she always asks you to take her along in all those social events.

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MAJOR SIGN 04

"Whenever you wish to spend time with her, she gives you dozen excuses."

Identification:-

•She makes excuses not to meet you or cancel plans at the last moment without any apparent reason.

•Women who use men sound more irrational and give the lamest excuses possible.

•More than often she doesn't keep dates with you.

•And even if she does she's always late or in hurry.

•She never commits to hanging out 1-­on-­1 with you.

•She always comes out with you with her girls.

03:31

MAJOR SIGN 05

"Whenever she is in public with you, she treats you more like a friend instead of her boyfriend."

Identification:-

•She introduces you to her friends as a 'friend' not as her boyfriend.

•She won't be your official girlfriend and you haven't met her BFF yet.

•If her male friends still hit on her and her female friends don't know you, then she has no intention of really being with you.

•She goes back and forth in relationship and friend zone and this makes you so confused.

•She subtly compares you to her ex. or her past relationships.

•Whenever you ask her about your relationship she says something like, “she is confused right now” or worse “she's not ready for a relationship”.

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MAJOR SIGN 06

"She doesn't return your phone calls and make excuses."

Identification:-

•She makes excuses like “ I didn't get a missed call ” or “ Oh, I completely forgot!”
Trust me, if a woman really likes you she won't forget or miss any call you make.

•She always has her phone in her hand but hardly replies or calls you.

•You call, leave messages and she finally gets back to you when you least expect it. She may pretend she didn't get your messages or she may come up with a lengthy illogical explanation as to why she didn't return your calls.

•She also doesn't respond quickly on whatsapp etc.

03:58

MAJOR SIGN 07

"She tells you a lot about her guy friends and sometimes even make them sound much smarter than you intentionally."

"Or she has a boyfriend and says she's going to break up with her boyfriend but doesn't."

Identification:-

•She doesn't want to leave her boyfriend or end her relationship with him. She tells you she's not happy with him, but she doesn't do a thing about it.

•She is using you to fill the void in her relationships and as long as she has that, it won't change the situation.

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MAJOR SIGN 08

"She never replies or always replies late to your "I Love You" and after that she subtly changes the topic."

Or "worse, she says “I love you” casually but she doesn't mean it."

Or "she only uses the four letter word (LOVE) tactfully. Hint, whenever she needs something from you."

Identification:-

•You don't see a glitter of charm in her eyes.

•She rarely talks with you in a low and sweet tune.

•Remember women are affectionate creatures. They love romantic stuff more than guys. But in your case she is less affectionate in the so called relationship, than you yourself.

03:40

MAJOR SIGN 09

"Openly flirts with other guys in front of you."

Identification:-

•This is one of the worst possible situation a guy can face, even if you are in a open relationship with her (given that you are in love with her).

•If some other person comes, she gives all her attention to that other person while you are still there.

•She refers to various guys as her “best friend.” This is a typical sign of an attention seeker.

•More than often she talks to you about other men.

•She is a consummate flirt - When you're at the club and you see your girl in casual conversation with every pretty guy she sees. It indicates that she is a consummate flirt. This is the type of women that can't get enough attention that she desires to validate her existence through the sleazy eyes of other men.

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MAJOR SIGN 10

"Lies a lot or makes dumb excuses in front of you."

Identification:-

•Well of course, this is difficult to catch because men usually don't think rationally in front of woman they like. But still here's few sign you can look for.

•She never maintains any eye contact with you. Eye contact comes naturally to lovers but not someone who is not in love with you.

•Sign of relief on her face after giving her lamest excuse thinking she didn't get caught.

•Being extra nice to you for next few minutes or hours after blurting out her excuse in hope you don't get suspicious of her.

•You have caught her lying more than once and she didn't give any rational explanation to that.

03:07

MAJOR SIGN 11

"More than often you feel that relation is one sided and she is not putting as much effort as she should (because she's not into you )."

Identification:-

•Does she give you as much as you give her (and I'm not just talking about material things) like your time or affection.

•She wants you to listen, but not the other way around.

•More than often she's using you as a priest to feel good about her own shortcomings.

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MAJOR SIGN 12

"Her future plans don't include you."

Or "her description of the perfect soul mate sounds nothing like you."

Identification:-

•Common excuses used to avoid your questions about your future together include:-

“I'm not sure what I'm doing with my life right now”.

“I just got out of a long relationship.”

“Aren't you having fun though?”

“Why do we have to make this complicated?”

“Can we talk about this later?”

•She never talks about the future with you or never wants to talk about the terms of your relationship.

03:37

MAJOR SIGN 13

"No sex or level of romance involvement at all."

Identification:-

•She doesn't hold your hand, kiss you, let you get to second base, and you've been “dating” her for few months. Beware.

•You buy her stuff and take her out on expensive dinner and still don't have intimacy, then you're being used.

•No Public Display of Affection with you.

•Earlier she used to rub your shoulders, give you spontaneous hugs and even initiate sex. But now she keeps her hands to herself.

•No affection at all –As I told you already women are affectionate creatures and if they're not showing you any affection, then it's means something really wrong.

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MAJOR SIGN 14

"She doesn't find you exciting enough."

Idetification:-

•She doesn't laugh at your jokes.

•She's constantly on her phone chatting with someone else when you are with her.

•She doesn' t make any effort to make a conversation.

•She hardly compliments you on your looks.

•She is just plain insensitive to your feelings.

•Affection is rarely shown and kissing and hugging is rejected quite often.

Section 3: 25 Minor Signs Of Identification
02:44

MINOR SIGN 01

"She is a woman with inconsistent values."

Identification:-

1. Often she tells you something and does something else.

2. Or doesn't tell you important things at all.

3. Her rules are designed for you only because she really isn't into you.

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MINOR SIGN 02

"Limited expression via social media."

Identification:-

No or hardly any use of emoticons while chatting.

Delayed reply to your chats.

Short reply to your conversation.

She doesn't put as much effort in conversation as much you do.

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MINOR SIGN 03

" She barely comments on your Facebook or social media pics and status."

Identification:-

She barely tags you in pics uploaded by her.

Limited emoticon expression on social media sites.

02:53

MINOR SIGN 04

"She sales pitch for other women."

Identification:-

•If conversations with her include sales pitches for other women she thinks you would like then it means she'd like to you date someone else.

•She also says I don't deserve you.

•Or says something like one day you gonna find someone better than me.

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MINOR SIGN 05

"She might say yes, but her body language says NO."

Identification:-

•Limited facial expressions or smile.

•When they are looking at you and smiling, are they smiling with their whole face, including their eyes, or just with their mouth?

•Couples in love tend to unconsciously

mirror each other's body language.

•Notice her body language closely, her body language may be telling you something she can't.

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MINOR SIGN 06

"She hardly makes any effort to look sexy or her best, whenever she's going out with you."

Identification:-

•If you recall the early days when she made an effort to look her best or sexy but now she doesn't make any effort at all.

•However if she wears sexy clothes and make-up when she's going somewhere without you, it's definitely time to start worrying.

03:31

MINOR SIGN 007

"She prefers having lunch with you over dinner."

Identification:-

•Lunch is less romantic when compared to dinner.

•It because Lunch is generally safe because there's usually a time limit.

•Moreover, it doesn't infringe on more important evening plans.

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MINOR SIGN 08

"She never takes pictures with you or posts them on social media sites."

Identification:-

•Whenever you guys go out she prefers taking photos of the food, drink, gift you bought for her instead of you two.

•She hardly comments on any facebook pic of you two.

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MINOR SIGN 09

"Treat her the way you'll treat her for a long time and notice her reaction."

Identification:-

•It might include things such as :-

Stop paying for her bills

Stop driving her around

•If she stops seeing you then it means:

•She was wasting your time.

•She loves free dinner and rides NOT you.

02:28

MINOR SIGN 10

"She says 'she likes me', but I get mixed signals."

Identification:-

•You have the hunch that something fishy is going on.

•She often gets the benefit of the doubt.

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MINOR SIGN 11

"She doesn't know much about you or tries to know you like your favorite food, best movie, etc."

Identification:-

•She doesn't remember things like your birthday or your sibling's names. It means she's not into you.

•She barely tries to know you and doesn't reciprocate her interest in you.

•All she knows is how much you earn or what car you drive, etc.

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MINOR SIGN 12

"She loves feeding off the emotional high that you and other men give her."

Identification:-

•More than often she uses you for stuff like emotional stability, to kill boredom, for backup or simply to elevate her status.

03:19

"MINOR SIGN 13

She uses sex as a weapon it's much easier for a woman to use sex as a weapon. Men aren't as good at it simply because they're the ones who want it."

Identification:-

•If she doesn't adore her gifts or do favors, she denies sex to you or says she's not in mood.

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MINOR SIGN 14

"She enjoys the drama, "chase", and attention from guys, than the actual companionship of a guy. Simply she's an attention seeker."

Identification:-

•It's always about her. She is remarkably self-centered. Though she herself may not even realize it, but she is interested only in what she can get from you, not what she can give to you.

•She flaunts her problems for the world to hear – especially guys.

•Lots of other girls hate her. A girl who claims she just “ can't get along with other girls ” and has a considerable amount of female enemies is bad news.

•She gets too comfortable too fast.

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MINOR SIGN 15

"You often wonder whether she's using you."

Identification:-

•If you're wondering this, she probably is using you. You should never feel like, the person you're with has suspicious motives for being with you.

•She keeps you hanging coz she is still undecided on you.

•You keep asking yourself if this girl is too much baggage for you.

03:07

MINOR SIGN 16

"She is always moody around you and gets mad at you for no reason."

Identification:-

•She runs hot and cold because she doesn't want to be with you.

•She hits you, pushes you, slaps you or calls you names.

•The moment it turns physically violent is the second you should move on.

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MINOR SIGN 17

"She dominates the relationship."

Identification:-

•She calls you up whenever she feels like, or asks you to meet her at her whims and fancies.

•Its all about her- The relationship runs on her terms and you are rarely introduced to anyone important.

•She messes with your self-confidence.

• No one should ever make you doubt your self-confidence.

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MINOR SIGN 18

"She wants her space… a lot!"

Identification:-

•You feel like she doesn't tell you everything important going on in her life.

•When a girl claims to love a guy, and yet avoids the guy completely for a few days every now and then, there's a good chance there's another guy in her life.

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MINOR SIGN 19

"She plays mind games."

Identification:-

•Playing mind games is a sure sign of selfishness, immaturity and disrespect.

•Anyone who plays games with another's heart is not ready to be in any relationship.

03:00

MINOR SIGN 20

"She has a boyfriend but pretends she's interested in you."

Identification:-

•If you find out that she has a boyfriend or if she even tells you that... FORGET HER! She may pretend that she is interested in you and that she might leave her boyfriend for you, but she will NEVER DO IT!!!

•Does she talk too much about her past relationships and her exes, which make you feel as if you are either insignificant or as if you are expected to fix them?

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MINOR SIGN 21

"She's always busy."

Identification:-

•Some women are legitimately busy, but I haven't met a woman yet who wouldn't make time for the man of her dreams.

•She never keeps dates with you - if she's ditching you every other day, then you've got a fishy situation coming up.

•She shows no interest in your plans, only hers.

•She often flakes on you or reschedules plans (especially if she doesn't usually offer up an alternative time to get together).

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MINOR SIGN 22

"She won't commit to a title."

Identification:-

•Women who are in a fake relationship (i.e., “ just friends ” or “ friends with benefits ”) will put off committing to a title. She refuses to label your interactions as “a relationship ”.

•She's confused about her relationship with you. If she truly does love you, there's nothing to be confused about unless she's still in love with another guy.

02:23

MINOR SIGN 23

"She prefers to spend time with you in private."

Identification:-

•If your lady friend treats you like a buddy in public (or like you don't exist) and then wants to snuggle and baby talk you in private, she's probably not interested in a real relationship.

•She avoids you around certain people or friends.

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MINOR SIGN 24

"She never goes out of her way to do anything special for you."

Identification:-

•Analyze if she only wants to do things that make her happy.

•If a girl really loves you then at some point of relationship she would have done something that you weren't expecting.

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MINOR SIGN 25

"She is highly embarrassed of you."

Identification:-

•She feels and looks uncomfortable when she is out with you in public .

•None or hardly any display of affection in public.

•She never cares to ask about how you are doing.

•She insults you, even jokingly.

•You're not as funny as you used to be.

Section 4: Conclusion
Conclusion
01:09

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